Is it normal to both hate and love her?

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Ok, so my girlfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship, meaning we can only talk on the phone (on weekends. Free minutes) and online. Most of the time I feel like she doesn't give two shits about me. When her phone "broke" we only could talk online, except she never got on and left me high and dry for almost two months. She rarely calls me back, like just today I called her, we talked for five minutes and she said she'd call he back in a little bit because she wanted to go tan. So not only am I second to her skin color, but she said that four hours ago.

But whenever I tell myself I should break up with her, I just think I can't. I can't picture my life without her, and even though I'm mad at her I still keep checking my phone in hopes she'll call me back. IIN?

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  • Mason556
    11 years ago

    Dude relly fuck wtf is wrong with you you have never even met here relly relly dump the bitch and find a real girl

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  • Open24hrs
    12 years ago

    Totally normal, my boyfriend and I are also in a long distance relationship and he treats me like I'm only there when he wants me and when he doesn't I'm not. He also won't ever call me, I call him and he never answers his phone, he rarely returns my messages and yeah I know exactly how you feel. So I know how you feel. I think you should move on, I think I should move on. But its hard I know. It sucks, but I saw him for about an hour the other day and we had sex, but it didn't feel the same. I think my hearts kind of over it and I don't want him anymore just as much as he doesn't want me. I don't think this it'll help you, but I hope you find someone who treats you right.

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  • one_guy
    13 years ago

    You don't see her. So how can't you see yourself without her?? And sounds like you need to get out of that relationship.

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  • rawr!
    13 years ago

    Going thru the same thing dude cept were lesbians. Then when I get lonely and hang with my bff she gets mad and says I want her and other shit :/

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  • jasmeen
    13 years ago

    i'am a girl and i know when u love someone u cant live without u want to hear his voice all the time try to share everything leave the useless things and be with the person u love i'am sorry i think she dosent love you and who dont love you dont deserve u she may have a bf or something to carry on sure there is someone in this world who loves u and waiting for u and this kind of love that u love her with always blind you from the persons who deserve you and love you take my advice and hope the best for you and wish u happiness :) always smile and when u do that the world will smile bk to u :) have a nice day

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Listen to this music:
    Def Leppard - When love and hate collides:)

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  • johnnyB4u
    13 years ago

    How you feel is normal, but it's not healthy. Try to move on. She sounds like a lot of girls I know and they are selfish B#@$hs.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Dude u deserve better andshe broke ur heart so u break hers

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  • confused80
    13 years ago

    Agree u def deserve better than that !! Life does n fact go on after a breakup and there's plenty of fish on the sea sweetie !!! Best of luck :)

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  • fancyj
    13 years ago

    Try to move on. You deserve better than that.

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