So than there is no purpose in believing that if you keep having sex with people you are not comfortable with is going to teach you anything about your sexuality. So why say we all need to do so? Its utterly pointless.
You dont need sex to know what you are or are not into. Some people just figure it out. You dont need to have it to understand its not your thing. People can know if they are gay, straight or kinky and never have it.
Yes.. I know if I have sex with people I dont care for its going to be a boring choir. Just like a gay person does not need to have sex with someone who does not need to go have sex with a bunch of women to realize "Hm perhaps I am probably not into chicks".
So you are still asserting that everyone has to have sex to have a sexuality which is illogical. No we dont have to all have sex since you say so your highness!
You are talking to yourself, not me. You are paying attention nothing that I say and putting the words in my mouth that you think I believe. I am not asserting that you have to have sex to have a sexually. I never said anything of the sort, and I already said I don't believe that. Please point out where I said that.
My actual personal belief on the subject is that you can go your entire life, never have sex, and still have a sexuality. I am gay. I have always been gay. I did not need to have sex to know I was gay. I knew I was gay long before I had sex. Sex and sexuality have nothing to do with each other. Sexuality is about attraction, not sex.
But you know what I didn't know before I had sex? What it felt like to have sex. And neither do you, or anyone else, until they have experienced the feeling.
I never said you should have sex with strangers. I never said you should have sex to learn about your sexuality. Just because you might not learn about sexuality doesn't make it pointless, because that isn't the point. The point is to have fun, and maybe connect with another person, maybe for 10 min, maybe fot the night, or maybe for a lifetime. I knew my husband for 30 min the first time we had sex. We are married almost 14 years.
IIN to believe you need to have sex to be educated?
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So than there is no purpose in believing that if you keep having sex with people you are not comfortable with is going to teach you anything about your sexuality. So why say we all need to do so? Its utterly pointless.
You dont need sex to know what you are or are not into. Some people just figure it out. You dont need to have it to understand its not your thing. People can know if they are gay, straight or kinky and never have it.
Yes.. I know if I have sex with people I dont care for its going to be a boring choir. Just like a gay person does not need to have sex with someone who does not need to go have sex with a bunch of women to realize "Hm perhaps I am probably not into chicks".
So you are still asserting that everyone has to have sex to have a sexuality which is illogical. No we dont have to all have sex since you say so your highness!
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I'm sorry for your loss.
You are talking to yourself, not me. You are paying attention nothing that I say and putting the words in my mouth that you think I believe. I am not asserting that you have to have sex to have a sexually. I never said anything of the sort, and I already said I don't believe that. Please point out where I said that.
My actual personal belief on the subject is that you can go your entire life, never have sex, and still have a sexuality. I am gay. I have always been gay. I did not need to have sex to know I was gay. I knew I was gay long before I had sex. Sex and sexuality have nothing to do with each other. Sexuality is about attraction, not sex.
But you know what I didn't know before I had sex? What it felt like to have sex. And neither do you, or anyone else, until they have experienced the feeling.
I never said you should have sex with strangers. I never said you should have sex to learn about your sexuality. Just because you might not learn about sexuality doesn't make it pointless, because that isn't the point. The point is to have fun, and maybe connect with another person, maybe for 10 min, maybe fot the night, or maybe for a lifetime. I knew my husband for 30 min the first time we had sex. We are married almost 14 years.