If you have sex with strangers without checking vs people you know you already know what the person you have is carrying. A lot of people are not responsible about sex they are just like "Its very important everyone has sex!" Its not important for everyone to have sex or to pressure everyone who has not have it into having it.
Whats the purpose of having sex with someone you hate just to say "Yeah I had sex. It totally sucked but I going to keep doing it hoping something will change". If your not into it your just not into it. There has been gay people who try to have sex with the other sex in hopes they would stop being gay but they are still gay.
Sometimes you already know what you are and what you are into. Its kind of like saying "I am going to touch this hot stove to see if it will burn me". Well obviously its hot. You dont need to burn yourself to see if it is. You can look at evidence. If the evidence proves that you are probably not going to be right with this person why try it anyways to confirm it?
Thats really illogical. You dont need to have sex to know what you are sexually attracted to. Otherwise you are telling everyone straight and gay person they do not have a right to be gay or straight unless they have sex with every race, and sex. Why do you believe that is your right to dictate?
I can say "Evidence says that this chemical is highly deadly to humans". Now I could trap a bunch of random people in a room and let out the gas and see if they all die. However if I did so I would be killing people for a pointless reason and go to jail for false imprisonment, and murder.
You are clearly one of the most irrational people on earth, not to mention believing you can dictate another person sexuality. Why do you believe you get to decide what other people are ALLOWED to be into?
So, all you are doing is repeating yourself over and over again. The very few new things you brought to the conversation have nothing to do with anything I said. I never said that you have to hve sex to know what you are sexually attracted to, nor do I believe it. I never said anything about sexual attraction at all. Never did I say anything about what people are allowed to be into. I don't give a crap what you're into. As I said in my original comment, if you don't want to have sex, don't. That is your choice and right. So thanks for putting words in my mouth.
All I did say is that it is impossible to to know what a feeling or emotion feels like without experiencing them. So far as a can tell you have said nothing to dispute that.
You want to say you know everything about the risks of STD's. Fine.
You want to say you know all about the risks of pregnancy. Fine with me too.
You want to say you don't want to have sex. I say fine, your choice.
You want to say you never want to have sex. Sure, whatever, up to you.
but you want to pretend you have any idea what it is like to experience sex with out experiencing it? Sorry, but you don't.
It is pretty clear from you constant repeating of the same thing over and over, and your putting words in my mouth assuming what I think, that you just posted this to have your own opinions validated, and aren't actually interested in what others think. That being the case, I am going to leave you to just parrot the same talking points over and over and I am done. Enjoy the rest of your day.
So than there is no purpose in believing that if you keep having sex with people you are not comfortable with is going to teach you anything about your sexuality. So why say we all need to do so? Its utterly pointless.
You dont need sex to know what you are or are not into. Some people just figure it out. You dont need to have it to understand its not your thing. People can know if they are gay, straight or kinky and never have it.
Yes.. I know if I have sex with people I dont care for its going to be a boring choir. Just like a gay person does not need to have sex with someone who does not need to go have sex with a bunch of women to realize "Hm perhaps I am probably not into chicks".
So you are still asserting that everyone has to have sex to have a sexuality which is illogical. No we dont have to all have sex since you say so your highness!
You are talking to yourself, not me. You are paying attention nothing that I say and putting the words in my mouth that you think I believe. I am not asserting that you have to have sex to have a sexually. I never said anything of the sort, and I already said I don't believe that. Please point out where I said that.
My actual personal belief on the subject is that you can go your entire life, never have sex, and still have a sexuality. I am gay. I have always been gay. I did not need to have sex to know I was gay. I knew I was gay long before I had sex. Sex and sexuality have nothing to do with each other. Sexuality is about attraction, not sex.
But you know what I didn't know before I had sex? What it felt like to have sex. And neither do you, or anyone else, until they have experienced the feeling.
I never said you should have sex with strangers. I never said you should have sex to learn about your sexuality. Just because you might not learn about sexuality doesn't make it pointless, because that isn't the point. The point is to have fun, and maybe connect with another person, maybe for 10 min, maybe fot the night, or maybe for a lifetime. I knew my husband for 30 min the first time we had sex. We are married almost 14 years.
IIN to believe you need to have sex to be educated?
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If you have sex with strangers without checking vs people you know you already know what the person you have is carrying. A lot of people are not responsible about sex they are just like "Its very important everyone has sex!" Its not important for everyone to have sex or to pressure everyone who has not have it into having it.
Whats the purpose of having sex with someone you hate just to say "Yeah I had sex. It totally sucked but I going to keep doing it hoping something will change". If your not into it your just not into it. There has been gay people who try to have sex with the other sex in hopes they would stop being gay but they are still gay.
Sometimes you already know what you are and what you are into. Its kind of like saying "I am going to touch this hot stove to see if it will burn me". Well obviously its hot. You dont need to burn yourself to see if it is. You can look at evidence. If the evidence proves that you are probably not going to be right with this person why try it anyways to confirm it?
Thats really illogical. You dont need to have sex to know what you are sexually attracted to. Otherwise you are telling everyone straight and gay person they do not have a right to be gay or straight unless they have sex with every race, and sex. Why do you believe that is your right to dictate?
I can say "Evidence says that this chemical is highly deadly to humans". Now I could trap a bunch of random people in a room and let out the gas and see if they all die. However if I did so I would be killing people for a pointless reason and go to jail for false imprisonment, and murder.
You are clearly one of the most irrational people on earth, not to mention believing you can dictate another person sexuality. Why do you believe you get to decide what other people are ALLOWED to be into?
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So, all you are doing is repeating yourself over and over again. The very few new things you brought to the conversation have nothing to do with anything I said. I never said that you have to hve sex to know what you are sexually attracted to, nor do I believe it. I never said anything about sexual attraction at all. Never did I say anything about what people are allowed to be into. I don't give a crap what you're into. As I said in my original comment, if you don't want to have sex, don't. That is your choice and right. So thanks for putting words in my mouth.
All I did say is that it is impossible to to know what a feeling or emotion feels like without experiencing them. So far as a can tell you have said nothing to dispute that.
You want to say you know everything about the risks of STD's. Fine.
You want to say you know all about the risks of pregnancy. Fine with me too.
You want to say you don't want to have sex. I say fine, your choice.
You want to say you never want to have sex. Sure, whatever, up to you.
but you want to pretend you have any idea what it is like to experience sex with out experiencing it? Sorry, but you don't.
It is pretty clear from you constant repeating of the same thing over and over, and your putting words in my mouth assuming what I think, that you just posted this to have your own opinions validated, and aren't actually interested in what others think. That being the case, I am going to leave you to just parrot the same talking points over and over and I am done. Enjoy the rest of your day.
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So than there is no purpose in believing that if you keep having sex with people you are not comfortable with is going to teach you anything about your sexuality. So why say we all need to do so? Its utterly pointless.
You dont need sex to know what you are or are not into. Some people just figure it out. You dont need to have it to understand its not your thing. People can know if they are gay, straight or kinky and never have it.
Yes.. I know if I have sex with people I dont care for its going to be a boring choir. Just like a gay person does not need to have sex with someone who does not need to go have sex with a bunch of women to realize "Hm perhaps I am probably not into chicks".
So you are still asserting that everyone has to have sex to have a sexuality which is illogical. No we dont have to all have sex since you say so your highness!
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I'm sorry for your loss.
You are talking to yourself, not me. You are paying attention nothing that I say and putting the words in my mouth that you think I believe. I am not asserting that you have to have sex to have a sexually. I never said anything of the sort, and I already said I don't believe that. Please point out where I said that.
My actual personal belief on the subject is that you can go your entire life, never have sex, and still have a sexuality. I am gay. I have always been gay. I did not need to have sex to know I was gay. I knew I was gay long before I had sex. Sex and sexuality have nothing to do with each other. Sexuality is about attraction, not sex.
But you know what I didn't know before I had sex? What it felt like to have sex. And neither do you, or anyone else, until they have experienced the feeling.
I never said you should have sex with strangers. I never said you should have sex to learn about your sexuality. Just because you might not learn about sexuality doesn't make it pointless, because that isn't the point. The point is to have fun, and maybe connect with another person, maybe for 10 min, maybe fot the night, or maybe for a lifetime. I knew my husband for 30 min the first time we had sex. We are married almost 14 years.