Hey, just to be clear I wasn't questioning you or your fidelity...
You seem cool from the comments I've seen you make.
Have realised now that I might be wrong but I took her response to mean "If you aren't willing to get pregnant then don't fuck unless you're in a committed relationship" & therefore based your response off that.
But I suppose I was thinking that most people in a committed relationship wouldn't opt for abortion even if pregnancy was unplanned, but thinking now that's just my beliefs & most likely (definitely) untrue for some people.
While I took it as "Don't fuck until you are ready to have a child" , some people do have this belief too so it wouldn't be strange to me at all.
I would abort even if I was in a committed relationship unless we would both be ready for it. A child is a life-long commitment and you need to be aware of that.
Agreed. I would want to have two at the VERY most. Mostly because I think that children are happier with a sibling close to their own age.
But I AM willing to maybe have children with the right male. He must be willing to take on more than 50% of the work because knowing myself I wouldn't be able to deal with children for too much.
Is it normal to believe that men should have no say in abortions?
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Meh, she's alright at times :)
Hey, just to be clear I wasn't questioning you or your fidelity...
You seem cool from the comments I've seen you make.
Have realised now that I might be wrong but I took her response to mean "If you aren't willing to get pregnant then don't fuck unless you're in a committed relationship" & therefore based your response off that.
But I suppose I was thinking that most people in a committed relationship wouldn't opt for abortion even if pregnancy was unplanned, but thinking now that's just my beliefs & most likely (definitely) untrue for some people.
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While I took it as "Don't fuck until you are ready to have a child" , some people do have this belief too so it wouldn't be strange to me at all.
I would abort even if I was in a committed relationship unless we would both be ready for it. A child is a life-long commitment and you need to be aware of that.
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I dont think I ever want to get pregnant and have kids (adoption maybe). And even if you are ready to have children you don't want one every year.
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Agreed. I would want to have two at the VERY most. Mostly because I think that children are happier with a sibling close to their own age.
But I AM willing to maybe have children with the right male. He must be willing to take on more than 50% of the work because knowing myself I wouldn't be able to deal with children for too much.