Is it normal to beg her?
Is it normal to beg for her to come back after a breakup?
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Is it normal to beg for her to come back after a breakup?
It's normal but a bad idea. There were obviously reasons you broke things off in the first place. Try to remember them. If they were minor and stupid reasons, you're probably going to hurt/upset her more by crawling on your knees to come back to you. If she broke up with you, then stuff probably isn't looking good for getting back together. I vote move on and find someone who will be perfect for you.
It's normal in the sense that it happens. But, mate, grow some balls and get some self respect. Maybe part of why she dumped you is that you're a guy who begs. Given the choice between a guy who begs and a guy who makes women beg, the woman's going to go for the latter most of the time. In my experience, the only time I've ever gotten a woman back after a breakup, is from a position of strength.
A breakup is usually one of two things. One, she's playing a game to give you notice she's not happy about something. Or two, she's thought this through for a long time and she's really sure it's over (and usually just found your replacement).
In either case, most of the time after a breakup, I realize it's for the best and I can trade up. I've left behind a trail of broken hearted women who regret playing one too many games with me.
It's human nature. When she sees you doing well and moving on, she thinks maybe she made a mistake. When she sees you begging, she knows she made the right decision.
This is forsure not normal, if you have to beg your ex you know there's something wrong! Y'all obviously broke up for a reason, don't make it worst by being clingy even though it's over. Just give it a break then after a few days try to talk things out, NOT BEGG!! (;
Hope this helps!
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I only had to read about 2 sentences of r smittys comment to know that he knows what the fuck he is talking about. Refer to their comment for my opinion.