Is it normal to become out of words when trying to defend your self?

I hate it when I'm yelling or defending my self but I become out of words and just forget everything! And all what comes from my mouth are understandable words!! I feel like I'm nothing and no one take me serieously :(

Is that normal?

Is It Normal?
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  • You run out of words because your thoughts go fast when your yelling or in a defensive situation and you can't keep up so just try to stay calm while this is going on and a great comback will come to you lol

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  • Yeah, I often get flustered when put In a defensive situation, but then I'll think of a great response later and be angry I didn't think of it then.

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  • I am definitely not good at defending myself. Especially on this site! Lol!

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  • i do that all the time and it drives me nuts. you are totally normal.

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