Is it normal to become aroused when a younger cousin sits on my lap?
I am 31 years old and many of the younger members of my extended family look up to me and admire me because I am "good with kids" and always bring them wonderful presents. I hope I can be a positive role model to them. However, one of my younger cousins (she might even be my niece, not sure) is 15 years old and has been acting rather...provocatively around me. For example, she likes to sit on my lap whenever she gets the opportunity and I don't tell anyone about it but she totally makes sure to get her butt right on top of my crotch...every single time. A few times she wrapped her arms around me and tried to give me a lapdance when no one was looking. She will also try to get my hands on her boobs and keep annoying me with questions like how much money I make and ask me to tell funny stories from work. There was also this one time when she was upstairs taking a shower (I think she planned this) and the whole family had gone out to get some breakfast and she asked me to give her the towel from the other side of the bathroom. As I was giving her the towel I was trying my hardest not to look but she was trying to show off her impressive teenage body. But the thing that really sealed the deal for me was that she told me how as a kid she loved to suck lollipops but now she "loves the real thing" (while she said that she gave me a wink and a smile). Obviously she was talking about blowjobs. She is very sexual and watches a lot of porn and also masturbates a lot (I know for a fact because she showed me some of her sex toys that her parents don't even know about)...plz help me get this girl off my back