Is it normal to become aroused when a younger cousin sits on my lap?

I am 31 years old and many of the younger members of my extended family look up to me and admire me because I am "good with kids" and always bring them wonderful presents. I hope I can be a positive role model to them. However, one of my younger cousins (she might even be my niece, not sure) is 15 years old and has been acting rather...provocatively around me. For example, she likes to sit on my lap whenever she gets the opportunity and I don't tell anyone about it but she totally makes sure to get her butt right on top of my crotch...every single time. A few times she wrapped her arms around me and tried to give me a lapdance when no one was looking. She will also try to get my hands on her boobs and keep annoying me with questions like how much money I make and ask me to tell funny stories from work. There was also this one time when she was upstairs taking a shower (I think she planned this) and the whole family had gone out to get some breakfast and she asked me to give her the towel from the other side of the bathroom. As I was giving her the towel I was trying my hardest not to look but she was trying to show off her impressive teenage body. But the thing that really sealed the deal for me was that she told me how as a kid she loved to suck lollipops but now she "loves the real thing" (while she said that she gave me a wink and a smile). Obviously she was talking about blowjobs. She is very sexual and watches a lot of porn and also masturbates a lot (I know for a fact because she showed me some of her sex toys that her parents don't even know about)...plz help me get this girl off my back

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  • Next time she tries to sit on your lap tell her she's too big and that's only for little kids. Also, if I were you I'd tell her parents about the sex toy thing.

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  • I remember my cousin and we're kids I was 10 and she was 11 or 12 and she took a bath and came out with only a towel and she dropped it by accident and she picked it up and I saw her naked butt from behind and she smiled at me and my dick was super hard and then her mom my aunt saw her and said that she shouldn't do that because I was a bit and I shouldn't see her like that and then my cousin dropped her towel again and she bent down and her mom saw her naked butt from behind and she said to my cousin " girl I see your butthole" and her words made my dick more hard and then my cousin said "mom!" embarrassed and then she put her clothes on she said watch this and she turned around and bent over and spread her buttcheeks open and I saw her butthole and it had a mole around it and I jacked off looking at her butthole and I was having the best time of my life because I always wanted to see her butt and even better she was holding her butt open and that's my arousing story, there is something about a girls woman's butt that makes my dick so hard

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  • I felt bad for a friend, who had a niece that did the same kinds of things. The worst thing was she was that dirty hot looking kind of girl. I saw a few things myself, but he told me about some of the 'bad' things.

    She was a trainwreck, and he knew that if he did anything, he'd be screwed, in a bad way.....

    Eventually, she backed off when she had boyfriends, and my friend was fixing her computer, and found videos of her having sex with her boyfriend. He didn't say so, but I'm sure she coated that computer with his cum while watching that..hahah.

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  • I think it's alright to get aroused by any of this. Sometimes us guys can get turned on by things we know we shouldn't like. As long as you understand that it should never go any farther than you being aroused. She is a teenage girl who is learning that she can do stuff like that. And young girls always seem attracted to older men. Look at the guys their age. You really need to ignore her when she acts like that, and if it continues to get worse talk to her about it. But it makes sense that you'd get aroused. Just don't let any of this get out of hand.

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  • Tell her to wait until she's legal. (And double check that she isn't your niece.)

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