the problem is you have tied sex up to love. the best sex you will have will not be with the one you love, most likely.
sometimes you meet someone, and there is an attraction, just do it (wear a condom). just do it and don't worry about the next day, or what people will think, or blah blah. i am married and my husband and i never have sex anymore, even though i still look great. are we in love? yes. do i think everyday about every other guy who i had great sex with, yes. do i regret ever opportunity not taken? YES. yes i do.
sex has nothing to with morality.
but all that said, if it will mess with your head, don't do it.
IIN to be worried about the morality/emotionality of my 1st time sex?
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the problem is you have tied sex up to love. the best sex you will have will not be with the one you love, most likely.
sometimes you meet someone, and there is an attraction, just do it (wear a condom). just do it and don't worry about the next day, or what people will think, or blah blah. i am married and my husband and i never have sex anymore, even though i still look great. are we in love? yes. do i think everyday about every other guy who i had great sex with, yes. do i regret ever opportunity not taken? YES. yes i do.
sex has nothing to with morality.
but all that said, if it will mess with your head, don't do it.