Is it normal to be worried about sex

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Ok so I'm 19 and a virgin and i've never done anything with another guy and i really like this guy and he likes me.
The problem is he keeps suggesting having sex or other "stuff". To be honest im not ready, i know im not, it just weirds me out. I do and i don't want to do stuff with him. Im scared im gonna mess up and he'll be judgemental. Maybe im just insecure about the way i look IDK. I do like this guy and when i tell him im not ready or i dont want to talk about it he says ok sorry, only to bring up another topic close to the one i said no to.

Am i stressing over something silly? Is this normal?

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  • MooseEyes
    13 years ago | pl

    Please contact me if you wish. I believe I can help you with this.
    You didn't say if you were a man or a woman.
    If you want to look into why you are feeling this way, we can talk about this and your feelings about this issue, why you are having them, and what should be done/how this should be handled.
    Also, no mean NO. Stop means STOP.
    If you feel that ou are not ready for intercourse or sex, you probably are not.
    Listen to what you are feeling.
    There is nothing wrong with wanting to wait to have sex until later.
    You have no expiration date stamped o n your body.
    I will be here to help you if you need it.
    Hope everything works out!

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