Is it normal to be worried about sex??

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Basically im 18, never had sex and im extremley worried about my first time!! ive been told it hurts the first time and some other things. im also worried about several other things too such as do guys care about what a girl looks like naked?? im not fat but im not skinny either. but im still worried a guys gonna take one look and be like URGH!!!! :S also does it matter about being shaven?? and also i have no idea what to do!! like what it feels like, how you know if ur gonna orgasm, or is this stuff ill just know about when ill do it?? also any tips on stuff like oral sex?? basically im dating a guy and he likes this kinda stuff so any tips will be greatly accepted. please dont take the piss though. this is personal to me.

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    11 years ago | pl

    It can hurt your first time, you will bleed of course but for me at least it wasnt nearly as painful as I expected. When he pulled out I actually worried I had hurt him cause I saw the blood but didnt feel it break. XD And if youre with a good guy who cares about you, its not gonna matter if you have the perfect body or not. Hell just be happy that youre sharing yourself with him. :) Everyone has their own preferences on shaven or non, a safe middle ground is to trim it up a little bit. Dont worry too much about knowing what to do and just do what feels good, youll get better with experience. :P For oral sex all I can tell you is dont push yourself too much to gag yourself, pay special attention to the head and right underneath the head (sensitive spot :P) and for me, Im very passionate about it and get real into what Im doing and my bf loves it. ;P

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  • josh413
    13 years ago | pl

    ok so this is what happened with my virgin gf who has turned into a freak now, I'm even scared. we never planed on having sex, we just started kissing in her room and it got all wild and crazy so she took of my pants and i followed suit.. we kept touching and turning each other on that i didn't even take notice of her body the first time. so i went down on her and did everything possible to get her dripping wet before i entered her. she did not feel a single pain, the only thing i noticed was blood on my penis so i had to pull out and she begged me not to. All I'm saying is, if the guy really loves you. he will take his time with you and will make you enjoy it. you will notice when you are having an orgasm but not all sex sessions end with an orgasm just so you know

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