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So my boyfriend and I had a talk and he told me he cheated on one of his past girlfriends. I have always believed once a cheater always a cheater. We have only been dating two months but I don't know what to do because I really do care about him. Is it normal for me to be so worried that he might cheat on me?
hmmm depends dose he seem sorry about doing it? did he tell you? dose he seem like hes cheating?
Hmm well I stayed with him. And he cheated on me. I feel so stupid but oh well .
It's normal to be worried, but just because he has in the past with other girlfriends, doesn't mean he will with you. Like me fir example, I cheated on my last boyfriend because I was ver unhappy for the longest time with him. But, I am with someone different now, and I could never cheat on him. I love him too much. So that saying you said doesn't always apply. It only applies to people who always cheating their partners.
I agree with the previous comment. In addition to that, I think how he characterizes this situation should be considered. If he feels that cheating was a mistake that he hopes to never repeat, then I think he is worth trusting. If he is however, only unhappy that he was caught that time, then perhaps 2 months might be long enough for him to have done the same deed to you?
Allow you knowledege of him so far, and a knowledge of what you honestly feel you could live with help you decide on how to proceed.
best of luck to you!
The past was the past, not to mention a completely different relationship. I wouldn't let it effect your relationship. Plus he was honest with you about it.