I'm glad it helped you! It seems like you are taking the careful steps. :)
I was in a relationship with a lot of red flags that I ignored. I started making up excuses for him and believed them. I started saying things will change after this or that. It doesn't. I wanted to like this guy so much. I loved him truly, but as the excitement of first love began to wear off, I wondered what I had been thinking. I'm not in that relationship anymore. Once I began seeing the truth, I couldn't un-see it, and I feel out of love. I was in love with the facade.
Sounds like you took a good stand. :)Just keep looking for red flags. Good luck to you. Post on here again as things progress. We'd like to hear you are doing well, with him or without :)
I've still been seeing him and I'm so happy to say that he hasn't tried to pressure me at all into doing anything! I don't know... but I do believe he cares for me now, at first I was very afraid he was trying to use me but he's actually been doing a lot for me and we've been going out so many places. He introduced me to his folks and showed me around his part of town... This is a good sign right? ^-^
Is it normal to be with this guy at all?
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I'm glad it helped you! It seems like you are taking the careful steps. :)
I was in a relationship with a lot of red flags that I ignored. I started making up excuses for him and believed them. I started saying things will change after this or that. It doesn't. I wanted to like this guy so much. I loved him truly, but as the excitement of first love began to wear off, I wondered what I had been thinking. I'm not in that relationship anymore. Once I began seeing the truth, I couldn't un-see it, and I feel out of love. I was in love with the facade.
Sounds like you took a good stand. :)Just keep looking for red flags. Good luck to you. Post on here again as things progress. We'd like to hear you are doing well, with him or without :)
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I've still been seeing him and I'm so happy to say that he hasn't tried to pressure me at all into doing anything! I don't know... but I do believe he cares for me now, at first I was very afraid he was trying to use me but he's actually been doing a lot for me and we've been going out so many places. He introduced me to his folks and showed me around his part of town... This is a good sign right? ^-^
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I'm glad things are working out for you. I hope everything stays comfortable for you and you find happiness. :) Best of luck. :)
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Thank you so much♥ I'll keep you updated ^-^