My gut feeling, based on what you said so far, is that he's a cheater and he's looking for the next thing.
Of course he's going to tell you he's not going to hurt you. He might even believe that himself to some extent.
I've seen lots of people who will say that they were in a bad relationship as an excuse for cheating on the other person.
Do you really want to be in a relationship that started off with so many lies AND with someone you work with? What happens when your relationship goes sour? You're stuck working with this guy.
Well from what I was told, it was only this girlfriend he has cheated on, the past ones had hurt him.. He's actually very afraid I will leave him or that I might cheat on him because I'm better looking than his ex's and younger.. I do hope he won't cheat though I think I'm more attached to him now.. =\
And who was telling you this? If it was him, you can't believe him. He's the one who didn't tell you he had a girlfriend when you started dating him, right?
Well I'm sort of scared to contact his last girlfriend, I don't know how she would react to me asking about her ex... He told her that I had no idea at first that he had a gf, and i didn't, but idk if she believes it..
Is it normal to be with this guy at all?
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My gut feeling, based on what you said so far, is that he's a cheater and he's looking for the next thing.
Of course he's going to tell you he's not going to hurt you. He might even believe that himself to some extent.
I've seen lots of people who will say that they were in a bad relationship as an excuse for cheating on the other person.
Do you really want to be in a relationship that started off with so many lies AND with someone you work with? What happens when your relationship goes sour? You're stuck working with this guy.
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Well from what I was told, it was only this girlfriend he has cheated on, the past ones had hurt him.. He's actually very afraid I will leave him or that I might cheat on him because I'm better looking than his ex's and younger.. I do hope he won't cheat though I think I'm more attached to him now.. =\
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And who was telling you this? If it was him, you can't believe him. He's the one who didn't tell you he had a girlfriend when you started dating him, right?
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Well he told me after a couple of days.. and yes it his him who's telling me about his ex's..
did they tell you they broke up with him or did he tell you that try to get in contact with them befor you persue this relationship
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Well I'm sort of scared to contact his last girlfriend, I don't know how she would react to me asking about her ex... He told her that I had no idea at first that he had a gf, and i didn't, but idk if she believes it..
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I wouldln't contact her. What would be the purpose? She'd be as unreliable as he is in telling what happened.
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Yea I'm not contacting her at all!