If he already had a girlfriend when you started dating and he didn't tell you about her, he's already establishing that he's dishonest and deceitful. If he started seeing you when he already had a girlfriend, would you be surprised if he started seeing someone else while he's still dating you?
Are you sure you really have that much in common or do you tell him what you like and he says, "Me, too!"
Based on what you've said, I think you're going to find out that he'll only be interested in you until he finds someone else to be interested in, then he'll dump you like he did his old girlfriend, if he even dumped her.
He did leave her.. but says that their relationship had went sour anyways and apologizes so much for not telling me in the first place.. Just recently he decided to confess that he had cheated on her before and I have no idea what to think because he tells me he learned from his mistakes and won't hurt me.. and I feel like such a fool but I sort of believe him..
My gut feeling, based on what you said so far, is that he's a cheater and he's looking for the next thing.
Of course he's going to tell you he's not going to hurt you. He might even believe that himself to some extent.
I've seen lots of people who will say that they were in a bad relationship as an excuse for cheating on the other person.
Do you really want to be in a relationship that started off with so many lies AND with someone you work with? What happens when your relationship goes sour? You're stuck working with this guy.
Well from what I was told, it was only this girlfriend he has cheated on, the past ones had hurt him.. He's actually very afraid I will leave him or that I might cheat on him because I'm better looking than his ex's and younger.. I do hope he won't cheat though I think I'm more attached to him now.. =\
And who was telling you this? If it was him, you can't believe him. He's the one who didn't tell you he had a girlfriend when you started dating him, right?
Well I'm sort of scared to contact his last girlfriend, I don't know how she would react to me asking about her ex... He told her that I had no idea at first that he had a gf, and i didn't, but idk if she believes it..
you are a dumb hoe if you beleave him i say this couse you are a dumb hoe if you are thinking of giving your virginity to an ass hole like him im a guy and im telling you now when a guy has to say he wont hurt you like that and he done it twice before hes not gonna stop
Is it normal to be with this guy at all?
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If he already had a girlfriend when you started dating and he didn't tell you about her, he's already establishing that he's dishonest and deceitful. If he started seeing you when he already had a girlfriend, would you be surprised if he started seeing someone else while he's still dating you?
Are you sure you really have that much in common or do you tell him what you like and he says, "Me, too!"
Based on what you've said, I think you're going to find out that he'll only be interested in you until he finds someone else to be interested in, then he'll dump you like he did his old girlfriend, if he even dumped her.
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Or it could have been just awkward for him.
He did leave her.. but says that their relationship had went sour anyways and apologizes so much for not telling me in the first place.. Just recently he decided to confess that he had cheated on her before and I have no idea what to think because he tells me he learned from his mistakes and won't hurt me.. and I feel like such a fool but I sort of believe him..
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My gut feeling, based on what you said so far, is that he's a cheater and he's looking for the next thing.
Of course he's going to tell you he's not going to hurt you. He might even believe that himself to some extent.
I've seen lots of people who will say that they were in a bad relationship as an excuse for cheating on the other person.
Do you really want to be in a relationship that started off with so many lies AND with someone you work with? What happens when your relationship goes sour? You're stuck working with this guy.
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Well from what I was told, it was only this girlfriend he has cheated on, the past ones had hurt him.. He's actually very afraid I will leave him or that I might cheat on him because I'm better looking than his ex's and younger.. I do hope he won't cheat though I think I'm more attached to him now.. =\
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And who was telling you this? If it was him, you can't believe him. He's the one who didn't tell you he had a girlfriend when you started dating him, right?
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Well he told me after a couple of days.. and yes it his him who's telling me about his ex's..
did they tell you they broke up with him or did he tell you that try to get in contact with them befor you persue this relationship
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Well I'm sort of scared to contact his last girlfriend, I don't know how she would react to me asking about her ex... He told her that I had no idea at first that he had a gf, and i didn't, but idk if she believes it..
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I wouldln't contact her. What would be the purpose? She'd be as unreliable as he is in telling what happened.
you are a dumb hoe if you beleave him i say this couse you are a dumb hoe if you are thinking of giving your virginity to an ass hole like him im a guy and im telling you now when a guy has to say he wont hurt you like that and he done it twice before hes not gonna stop
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i'm not going to listen to you at all with you talking to me like that... i'm here for advice and you aren't helping at all!