1: You did not at all explain or tell what the other person was getting out of this. Do elaborate that.
2: Do you seriously think that, thinking or saying "I thought everyone did this to some extent" is some sort of justification for continuing such despicable behavior? Leading on another person is never alright. It does not matter how common it is or to what extent other people do it. Other then that this kind of behaviour should be condemned. There are many ways to cheat on a person, some do it physically others do it deceivingly by having dishonest intention. And that in and of itself is quite insolent thing to do.
3: Read again what you replied to the others comment. To one you said; "why tell them it doesn't work when it does work?" and to the other you replied "Because the person is not changing and has no ambition". Do you not see you are contradicting yourself? Unless using others and playing with their emotions gives you some kind of pleasure and peace. I mean if something like that ever happened to me, i would not have liked a worthless and deplorable creature like yourself wasting my time. Trust me people like you are never worth it. That is why breaking it of is way better (and do tell them the reason), then leading someone on. Show some God damn integrity!
Not at all. It's only your behavior of using someone that is revolting. You can actively look for someone else all you want, but the fact that you are doing it while already in a relationship is what is wrong. That is why i am saying, break it off. It will be the best for that person.
And anyway, you obviously did not answer my question, meaning your are well aware that your behavior is far from acceptable. What gives you the right to waste another persons time? if you break it off right now, that person can also go look for a better future partner, they actually really do need it.
You replied to the other user: "I like being with them, they like being with me." Hmm now try asking the person you are with "Is it normal to be with someone knowing you are looking for someone better?", and then see how long they will be with you. But you are not, because you are very well aware of the consequences and you know they will not like it. Of course they are not think of marring but still.
Seriously grow up already and stop using people and stop being a prick.
Sorry, but I don't agree with you. Everyone who is in a relationship thinks about someone else I'm sure of it. I'm not a bad person for looking, and I'm not a bad person for making someone happy in the meantime. I'm not stringing the person along like you and other users seem to think. Nothing lasts forever and maybe that's something you have a hard time dealing with.
IIN to be with someone knowing you are looking for someone better?
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Yes, the other person is getting a lie.
Tell us what this person is getting out of it?
Just go and end it, right now! Why are you leading someone on like this?? Have some shame!
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I thought everyone did this to some extent
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1: You did not at all explain or tell what the other person was getting out of this. Do elaborate that.
2: Do you seriously think that, thinking or saying "I thought everyone did this to some extent" is some sort of justification for continuing such despicable behavior? Leading on another person is never alright. It does not matter how common it is or to what extent other people do it. Other then that this kind of behaviour should be condemned. There are many ways to cheat on a person, some do it physically others do it deceivingly by having dishonest intention. And that in and of itself is quite insolent thing to do.
3: Read again what you replied to the others comment. To one you said; "why tell them it doesn't work when it does work?" and to the other you replied "Because the person is not changing and has no ambition". Do you not see you are contradicting yourself? Unless using others and playing with their emotions gives you some kind of pleasure and peace. I mean if something like that ever happened to me, i would not have liked a worthless and deplorable creature like yourself wasting my time. Trust me people like you are never worth it. That is why breaking it of is way better (and do tell them the reason), then leading someone on. Show some God damn integrity!
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I think I understand now. In your mind, being in a relationship or dating someone is the same as being married.
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Not at all. It's only your behavior of using someone that is revolting. You can actively look for someone else all you want, but the fact that you are doing it while already in a relationship is what is wrong. That is why i am saying, break it off. It will be the best for that person.
And anyway, you obviously did not answer my question, meaning your are well aware that your behavior is far from acceptable. What gives you the right to waste another persons time? if you break it off right now, that person can also go look for a better future partner, they actually really do need it.
You replied to the other user: "I like being with them, they like being with me." Hmm now try asking the person you are with "Is it normal to be with someone knowing you are looking for someone better?", and then see how long they will be with you. But you are not, because you are very well aware of the consequences and you know they will not like it. Of course they are not think of marring but still.
Seriously grow up already and stop using people and stop being a prick.
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Sorry, but I don't agree with you. Everyone who is in a relationship thinks about someone else I'm sure of it. I'm not a bad person for looking, and I'm not a bad person for making someone happy in the meantime. I'm not stringing the person along like you and other users seem to think. Nothing lasts forever and maybe that's something you have a hard time dealing with.