You are by definition a heartless and a cruel person on many levels and your behavior is literally loathsome. To lead on someone like this, just because you have not found the one you want a future with is indeed quite shameless. And on top of that to use that person for some sort of pass time is beyond vicious. If you only wanted companionship you should have never ever entered the relationship to begin with.
I personally, on many levels feel deeply sorry for the person who you are in relationship with. Because to be treated like that would be indescribably hurtful.
My best advice for you is to be direct with that person about what you feel and end it as fast as possible. And for a person in your situation this is the only dignified way of ending it, if you at all have any dignity left. That person deserve to be let go off and in a dignified manner. But i am pretty sure you are among those people who ghost others, because you know you are at fault and try to run away from the problems you yourself create. Thinking you can get away without any consequences or drama. I highly discourage you to ghost, no matter how tempting it may be.
Oh, and know that, what comes around goes around. Hopefully when you meet the one you really want to have a future with, that person will treat you the same way you have treated this person. And woe unto you, not once, but twice, for treating someone like that! Verily an accursed person you are.
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You are by definition a heartless and a cruel person on many levels and your behavior is literally loathsome. To lead on someone like this, just because you have not found the one you want a future with is indeed quite shameless. And on top of that to use that person for some sort of pass time is beyond vicious. If you only wanted companionship you should have never ever entered the relationship to begin with.
I personally, on many levels feel deeply sorry for the person who you are in relationship with. Because to be treated like that would be indescribably hurtful.
My best advice for you is to be direct with that person about what you feel and end it as fast as possible. And for a person in your situation this is the only dignified way of ending it, if you at all have any dignity left. That person deserve to be let go off and in a dignified manner. But i am pretty sure you are among those people who ghost others, because you know you are at fault and try to run away from the problems you yourself create. Thinking you can get away without any consequences or drama. I highly discourage you to ghost, no matter how tempting it may be.
Oh, and know that, what comes around goes around. Hopefully when you meet the one you really want to have a future with, that person will treat you the same way you have treated this person. And woe unto you, not once, but twice, for treating someone like that! Verily an accursed person you are.