Is it normal to be with someone for 8yrs and still be bf and gf?

Tell your bf this and not to be mean but get used to the guy spending money on his toys. You women have the house and decorate stuff while us guys we have our vehicle. No matter what you do being with a different man will be different dont you think being financially stable is more important than being husband and wife. Your still the same 2 people when you are married you just change your last name thats it.