Is it normal to be way too nice?

Im always nice to everyone no matter what, even if they have hurt me in the past im still nice to then. Im afraid people might take advantage of me and use me because sometimes i just cant stand to say no to someone...

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Based on 46 votes (34 yes)
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  • roxco

    Can I have $100 dollars????

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    • cozyinhere

      This made my day! :D

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  • Shrunk

    i use to be like that until i realise it got me nowhere now i dont give a shiet about anyone and its a lot beter this way

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    • true ::DDDD

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  • howaminotmyself

    People will take advantage of you if you are not careful. But people will also respect you if you are sincere with the kindness you give out. The people who realize this won't take it too hard if you say no every now and then. If they don't, they aren't worth your energy.

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  • alv1592

    that's actually not a good thing. i mean, being nice is a good thing, but there's a difference between being nice and being a pushover. keep being sociable and making friends, but don't be afraid to stand up for yourself when you need to.

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  • Dreamsao

    I'm not. I'm a huge fucking cunt. I envy you.

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  • mrbrownfinger

    There's being nice and there's being a pussy.

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  • ThePurplePanda

    Perhaps I should take lessons from you, and you take some from me. One insult from a person and I burn their house down! :D

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    • Dreamsao

      You're ugly

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  • TheMayneDude

    Jesus said, "if someone slaps your cheek, turn the other one. " or something like that. In other words, treat people better than they treat you.

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  • philisophicalpothead

    whocares if its normal, the shxts not healthy...
    -This described me like 2 weeks ago. Shrunk is pretty much right. the "f.ck em all" attitude is 100% appropriate. For people like us...its hard out here. You have shxt like in your DNA that just makes you give everyone a chance right? I also stuck my neck out for others in situations, hoping for the best in them. but after being left in the cold alone and a few times you realize...99.9% of the people in this world are looking out for themselves. Even those we call our friends will look out for themselves overall and facing that helps me to "wake up" and get with it. once you realize that, it makes it easier to be "selfish" or to look out for yourself. theres NOTHING wrong with it [saying no] man i promise you...Its okay to put yourself 1st in your life, dont ever feel guilty for that.
    +But deep down i still feel ill be lucky enough to meet someone like myself. someone i can truly trust and wont take advantage of my kindness. until then, its:
    F.CK EM ALL!

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  • Sketchblock

    yea man im way too nice as well... but do it for yourself not for others if that makes sense...

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  • Cicero

    well it's simple....be nice but just to those who deserve it...and learn to say no to those who just want to use u

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