Totally agree with Mando. You have every right to want a commitment. He is letting you know -- very obviously -- that he is putting his wants and needs completely ahead of yours. You wouldn't be posting this question if your relationship is perfect as it is. For a relationship to work, both participants need to have the same goals for the relationship, and it doesn't appear that you do.
Is it normal to be w/someone 9 yrs w/out commitment
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Totally agree with Mando. You have every right to want a commitment. He is letting you know -- very obviously -- that he is putting his wants and needs completely ahead of yours. You wouldn't be posting this question if your relationship is perfect as it is. For a relationship to work, both participants need to have the same goals for the relationship, and it doesn't appear that you do.