Is it normal to be very nervous to talk to women

78% Normal
9 Comments

Ever since I was in high school, I've been very shy around females, even though some of my friends are polar opposite... Outgoing, talkative, touchy and very smooth with women, any time I see a woman that is remotely attractive to me whether it be sex or even relationship material, I choke. I frequently find myself at a loss for words and seldom follow through with my interests, things get worse in the bedroom however, I have had sex with 16 girls since I was 17(21 now) and have only made the first move on 2.... Is it normal?

Is It Normal?
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 9 ) Sort: best | oldest
  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    10 years ago | pl

    "however, I have had sex with 16 girls since I was 17(21 now) and have only made the first move on 2.... "

    Dude what do you complain about? At least 14 girls made a move on you so why care about being able to do it first? Wanna swap lives?

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    0
    0
  • Geneva5
    10 years ago | pl

    Most likely a homo /

    Maybe go to wizards school and you could still be saved by Jesus.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    0
    0
  • alv1592
    11 years ago | pl

    You remind me of Raj from The Big Bang Theory. He never talks to females unless he's drunk lol

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    0
    0
      -
    • dappled
      11 years ago | pl

      I always thought I was Sheldon. I just realised there's an element of Rajesh about me too. :P

      Definitely not Howard, though. Despite resemblances in certain naming departments.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      Report
      1
      1
  • maddog2020
    11 years ago | pl

    That is not normal ! It might be the way alot of guys are but you have to feel more positive about yourself. You can't worry about what other people think of you. The girls must like the way you look if you only made the first move 2 times out of 16 banging sessions ! Or you are a very funny guy ! Chicks like that ! It's just like the story of "The Hot Chick" ! The girl is so beautiful, guys are like "She's got a boyfriend, I ain't got a shot, so they don't bother to ask her out. Mean while this gorgeous chick is home eating popcorn and candy watching a movie all by herself getting FAT ! Imagine if you made the moves ! You would have been with atleast 32 babes ! Don,t be shy man !

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    0
    0
  • livnlrn93
    12 years ago | pl

    It is absolutely normal to be really shy around girls. My friends and I find shy guys really cute, a lot of girls do actually.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    0
    0
  • norm
    12 years ago | pl

    If most guys were honest, they would say they are terrified of women.

    I think it comes from a fear of rejection in lots of guys. Getting shot-down sucks big time.

    Just relax.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    0
    0
  • I_steal_free_bread
    12 years ago | pl

    I used to be like that too, all you need is more self confidence

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    0
    0
  • Tehboss
    12 years ago | pl

    sure is you newbassaur you are a nancyboy. join the marines next week it will cure you =D

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    -1
    -1