I honestly appreciate a man that stands his ground and speaks his mind. Sorry to say this but you being a pushover is probably attracting the wrong type of woman anyways. You don't want someone to run you over. I get where the feelings come from though. Don't worry about their initial reaction. If you have a valid reason to say something to them or that your upset about something they did then they will respect you for sticking up for yourself. If you stay quiet for fear of anger or upsetting her she is going to continue to do whatever the hell she wants. I bet the majority of the time the reaction you get isn't anywhere near as bad as you thought it was going to be.
Yea that's why it's a phobia. The worst part is the stress I put myself through in my own mind. I mean... I really thought I was a rapist and didn't even trust myself around women for like half a year after that first one.
The second one I was just so angry at myself.... it was just bad.
It's like... the worst part is that there's this faceless woman in my head just screaming her head off at me and a bunch of imaginary people taking her side. I start like... formulating my apology in my head, it's just so rediculous.
I'm so functional elsewise but with women I just... I swear sometimes I want to just be asexual. Except I still crave sex but it's extremely stressful!
IIN to be utterly terrified of hurting women in any way?
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I honestly appreciate a man that stands his ground and speaks his mind. Sorry to say this but you being a pushover is probably attracting the wrong type of woman anyways. You don't want someone to run you over. I get where the feelings come from though. Don't worry about their initial reaction. If you have a valid reason to say something to them or that your upset about something they did then they will respect you for sticking up for yourself. If you stay quiet for fear of anger or upsetting her she is going to continue to do whatever the hell she wants. I bet the majority of the time the reaction you get isn't anywhere near as bad as you thought it was going to be.
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Yea that's why it's a phobia. The worst part is the stress I put myself through in my own mind. I mean... I really thought I was a rapist and didn't even trust myself around women for like half a year after that first one.
The second one I was just so angry at myself.... it was just bad.
It's like... the worst part is that there's this faceless woman in my head just screaming her head off at me and a bunch of imaginary people taking her side. I start like... formulating my apology in my head, it's just so rediculous.
I'm so functional elsewise but with women I just... I swear sometimes I want to just be asexual. Except I still crave sex but it's extremely stressful!