Is this really still putting them on a pedistal? I used to think women were better than guys but I'm way past that. I can see flaws in them now, some girls I don't even like but it's not that I don't think I'm worthy or anything it's just that I don't want to make them angry. I guess women's opinions of me just matter a lot. People tend to hate guys who women hat ass well. Men can hate all sorts of people for whatever reason and people may agree or disagree but when a woman makes a character judgement people tend to believe them. It just scares me that if I piss them off, they might be able to get a bunch of people... Men and women, to see me in that same negative light. I really don't care what guys think. No one really does honestly. If Joe doesn't like me there's not many social conciquences but no one likes to see a woman hurt and I'm kind if afraid of the backlash I might get.
Yes, this is putting them on a pedestal. I really don't understand your condition of having to make sure all women are appeased ALL the time. You do realize some women are very crazy and completely irrational right? Just like some men target prostitutes and murder them, there are very mentally ill women walking around free in the world.
This cultural thinking is going to backfire very badly. No matter what your sex is you need to held accountable for your actions.
I do get that. I don't necessarily try to appease all women. There are plenty of terrible ones. When I see a decent girl though I just don't want to mis step. I'm just really sensativity to female anger. I'm not sure I've ever really been that scared of other men either because I feel like I can handle myslef around them. With women though... there's no way to fight back once they get people to hate you. You can't use your fist and they'll ignore your words. I just feel like an angry woman has a lot of power because she can get so much support.
A person I went to school with died breaking up a fight between two girls. He was 20. After he broke it up, one of the girls told her brother that he had been messing with her, the brother came down and shot him. Another friend got kicked out of college on a rape accusation, but i saw them hanging out that night. They banged then came to chill with us then went back to having sex. Totally consentual. That girl is one of the nicest girls I know too, I still don't think she really understands what she did. The first is extreme and the second I still don't have 100% all the info on because i wasnt there the whole time but it illustrates what I'm talking about. People jump to defend a woman in danger and I'm already physically imposing and a minority dealing with white girls so I'm really not trying to fuck with that.
IIN to be utterly terrified of hurting women in any way?
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Is this really still putting them on a pedistal? I used to think women were better than guys but I'm way past that. I can see flaws in them now, some girls I don't even like but it's not that I don't think I'm worthy or anything it's just that I don't want to make them angry. I guess women's opinions of me just matter a lot. People tend to hate guys who women hat ass well. Men can hate all sorts of people for whatever reason and people may agree or disagree but when a woman makes a character judgement people tend to believe them. It just scares me that if I piss them off, they might be able to get a bunch of people... Men and women, to see me in that same negative light. I really don't care what guys think. No one really does honestly. If Joe doesn't like me there's not many social conciquences but no one likes to see a woman hurt and I'm kind if afraid of the backlash I might get.
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Yes, this is putting them on a pedestal. I really don't understand your condition of having to make sure all women are appeased ALL the time. You do realize some women are very crazy and completely irrational right? Just like some men target prostitutes and murder them, there are very mentally ill women walking around free in the world.
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I do get that. I don't necessarily try to appease all women. There are plenty of terrible ones. When I see a decent girl though I just don't want to mis step. I'm just really sensativity to female anger. I'm not sure I've ever really been that scared of other men either because I feel like I can handle myslef around them. With women though... there's no way to fight back once they get people to hate you. You can't use your fist and they'll ignore your words. I just feel like an angry woman has a lot of power because she can get so much support.
A person I went to school with died breaking up a fight between two girls. He was 20. After he broke it up, one of the girls told her brother that he had been messing with her, the brother came down and shot him. Another friend got kicked out of college on a rape accusation, but i saw them hanging out that night. They banged then came to chill with us then went back to having sex. Totally consentual. That girl is one of the nicest girls I know too, I still don't think she really understands what she did. The first is extreme and the second I still don't have 100% all the info on because i wasnt there the whole time but it illustrates what I'm talking about. People jump to defend a woman in danger and I'm already physically imposing and a minority dealing with white girls so I'm really not trying to fuck with that.