Is it normal to be unable to have a relationship with people?

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Is it normal that I can't seem to get attached or have a relationship with someone? Whether it's a friend a family member or whatever, I can never get attached. I'm a loner by choice, but I used to have many friends. Everyone always thought I was weird though because I never really had "friends", more like just "acquaintances". I can only be "friends" with someone for a little while, then I always (not intentionally) mess things up. I also don't really like being around my family, and I can never get myself to say "I love you" to ANYONE! Everyone else always does, but I don't know why I can't. I also have never had a boyfriend. I get hit on, but I always just walk away, I don't like people as anything more than just friends. Point is, I can never seem to have a relationship with anyone. Am I like weird or something, or just a regular loner?

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  • TonyKickass
    12 years ago

    I have never had a single friend or a single girlfriend in my entire life and i love that because i don't have to rely on others for companionship but rather on myself and y'know what?? Itz totally freeing to be a total loner I LOVE IT and i understand better than most because i have lived it for my entire life, take good care ;)

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  • Ldizzy1234
    12 years ago

    This sounds really similar to myself. However, I'm not doing much to change. If you really don't like being that way, you could probably change if you really wanted to.

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  • TotalAspie
    12 years ago

    Is it possible you're love-shy? It's something that mostly affects Males, but Females are known to be love-shy.

    I can relate to being a loner, I was one too for a big part of my life (comes from being an Aspie). Don't be afraid to talk in-depth with people who share-in with at least one of your interests. You might find someone who shares in with many of your interests (and philosophies), and you'll find them highly exciting. (Maybe even physical attraction, too!)

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  • Tehboss
    12 years ago

    you are weird but not too much and you will find true friends and one day you will feel an urge to be with someone and that will be magical trust me.

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