anyone who says they "get bored" or get angry or says you talk too much thinks YOU are smart (smarter then they are) and they don't like that...
If you have to work with them just say "I don't know"
Throw in a "you're right" and you'll be besties in no time
Its not that they consider themselves stupid, it is that they think the other is smarter. Another factor could be that their ego needs them to be the constant focus. By cutting you off when you speak/getting bored/cutting your views down, in their eyes, the "focus" returns to them and they establish their dominance. In their eyes, this makes them appear "smarter"
Which is why I suggest "giving them what they want"
Tell them they are right, you are wrong.
They won't feel threatened anymore and will back off and probably pick on someone else
Is it normal to be unable to communicate with narrow minded people?
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anyone who says they "get bored" or get angry or says you talk too much thinks YOU are smart (smarter then they are) and they don't like that...
If you have to work with them just say "I don't know"
Throw in a "you're right" and you'll be besties in no time
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Really? So they react that way since they a stupid and they know it?
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Its not that they consider themselves stupid, it is that they think the other is smarter. Another factor could be that their ego needs them to be the constant focus. By cutting you off when you speak/getting bored/cutting your views down, in their eyes, the "focus" returns to them and they establish their dominance. In their eyes, this makes them appear "smarter"
Which is why I suggest "giving them what they want"
Tell them they are right, you are wrong.
They won't feel threatened anymore and will back off and probably pick on someone else