I've been in your shoes before and let me tell you this, looks matter. However, beauty captures the eye but personality captures the heart. People nowadays, especially teenagers, can be very judgmental and it sucks to deal with them. I'll tell you what I did when my self esteem was at an all time low. I looked in the mirror and started naming qualities about myself that I liked. I kept telling myself that I was amazing because I knew that eventually I would believe it.
As for the bullies, well I spent a lot of my high school career figuring out how to deal with them and here is what I came up with. NEVER let a bully insult you to your face. By letting them insult you to your face you're giving them a front row seat to you're reaction. Just ignore them as best as you can. Don't stop and take what they're dishing out. The first couple of days will suck because they'll try to get under your skin but if you ignore them they will eventually go away. While dealing with the bullies keep telling yourself that you're amazing an any girl would be lucky to have you. I know that being bullied sucks but if you stop making yourself a target they'll go away.
Is it normal to be ugly
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I've been in your shoes before and let me tell you this, looks matter. However, beauty captures the eye but personality captures the heart. People nowadays, especially teenagers, can be very judgmental and it sucks to deal with them. I'll tell you what I did when my self esteem was at an all time low. I looked in the mirror and started naming qualities about myself that I liked. I kept telling myself that I was amazing because I knew that eventually I would believe it.
As for the bullies, well I spent a lot of my high school career figuring out how to deal with them and here is what I came up with. NEVER let a bully insult you to your face. By letting them insult you to your face you're giving them a front row seat to you're reaction. Just ignore them as best as you can. Don't stop and take what they're dishing out. The first couple of days will suck because they'll try to get under your skin but if you ignore them they will eventually go away. While dealing with the bullies keep telling yourself that you're amazing an any girl would be lucky to have you. I know that being bullied sucks but if you stop making yourself a target they'll go away.