100 % agree with "babyscarer", although your user name freaks me out a bit...lol. Choose family...they will always love us through all the bs we get into over our lives, they will kick us when were are already down, be there to lift our dumbasses back up, but surely don't have to like choices we've made. I used to get so pissed off when I was younger and they'd say, "hunny, we have rules and enforce them, because we love you". I only truly understood this when I moved out at 17 and REALLY get it now that I'm 27 with a child of my own. Choosing between friends vs family shouldn't be a hard choice when the friends you have are letting or causing the trouble you're in. Once you grow up a bit more only to figure out who " you are", will you understand why they are making you choose. Remember, even if you make the wrong choice for now, your family will still be there, but gaining back respect for some mistakes can take longer than most of those "friends" will even be around in the end.
Is it normal to be two different people?
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100 % agree with "babyscarer", although your user name freaks me out a bit...lol. Choose family...they will always love us through all the bs we get into over our lives, they will kick us when were are already down, be there to lift our dumbasses back up, but surely don't have to like choices we've made. I used to get so pissed off when I was younger and they'd say, "hunny, we have rules and enforce them, because we love you". I only truly understood this when I moved out at 17 and REALLY get it now that I'm 27 with a child of my own. Choosing between friends vs family shouldn't be a hard choice when the friends you have are letting or causing the trouble you're in. Once you grow up a bit more only to figure out who " you are", will you understand why they are making you choose. Remember, even if you make the wrong choice for now, your family will still be there, but gaining back respect for some mistakes can take longer than most of those "friends" will even be around in the end.