It seems like you're the chameleon type. You haven't really developed your own identity (yet), so you're always behaving like the people around you. Watch the Woody Allen movie "Zelig", it's an interesting take on this.
The hard way of solving this would be figuring out who you really want to be, deciding on your morals and always acting based on them, but this could take from months to forever.
The easier way is to change friends - if you get some better friends, you will be better yourself. I'm assuming this is the part of your life/personality you'd prefer to change, because obviously, drugs and prison are unfavorable things to be involved with. Also, you can't change your family.
Is it normal to be two different people?
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It seems like you're the chameleon type. You haven't really developed your own identity (yet), so you're always behaving like the people around you. Watch the Woody Allen movie "Zelig", it's an interesting take on this.
The hard way of solving this would be figuring out who you really want to be, deciding on your morals and always acting based on them, but this could take from months to forever.
The easier way is to change friends - if you get some better friends, you will be better yourself. I'm assuming this is the part of your life/personality you'd prefer to change, because obviously, drugs and prison are unfavorable things to be involved with. Also, you can't change your family.