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I am so incredibly turned on by other women, s&m style sex, spanking, hair pulling, biting, scratching, otherwise really kinky sex. I, however, lack the confidence to act them out or even discuss them with my partner. I try to drop hints without seeming weird but I don't think he gets it. How do I gain the confidence to tell him and begin to be pleasured the way I secretly like?
You're normal. I've been there too. :)
You'll feel comfortable opening up about it when you truly realize that you're not willing to go through life not being fully satisfied sexually, that you deserve to have good sex.
He might laugh your suggestions off at first but be persistent until he understands you're serious. You'd be surprised what guys are willing to do to please their girls.
I understand, and it took me many years to accept and finally disclose these feelings with my partner, during which time, was unfullfilled sexually.
Now that it is 'out in the open', we both enjoy a much more satisfying relationship.
Some men, will not be willing to participate in such, it is of course up to you, how you would deal with this, if the case. But if this is something you really desire, you need to take the risk and share your feelings, you may find he is excited by this as well -as many men are.
If you are too shy to come right out in saying, during your next time together, try to guide his hands in position, to where he has you 'pinned' or initiate by laying across his knees, butt high, in order to receive your 'spanking' :)
Good luck!