What turns you on is that you think it is a sign of your desirability - as if you were a prized possession he simply must have and keep to himself and play with as he wishes.
It is not. It is about power and control and a sign of a very sick relationship that, if pursued, would cause you great grief and possible permanent injury and psychic damage. Wake up from your fantasy.
I know a girl that was in a very controlling relationship once, and it took her ages to get out of it no matter how hard she tried. But she finally did, eventually. You can tell it definitely changed her though. And when I say changed her, I mean really changed her. Mentally and emotionally.
Is it normal to be turned on by guys who are controlling/possessive ?
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What turns you on is that you think it is a sign of your desirability - as if you were a prized possession he simply must have and keep to himself and play with as he wishes.
It is not. It is about power and control and a sign of a very sick relationship that, if pursued, would cause you great grief and possible permanent injury and psychic damage. Wake up from your fantasy.
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I agree 100%. Listen to Mando's comment!
I know a girl that was in a very controlling relationship once, and it took her ages to get out of it no matter how hard she tried. But she finally did, eventually. You can tell it definitely changed her though. And when I say changed her, I mean really changed her. Mentally and emotionally.