"Attraction is something we have absolutely no control over"
Actually, we do. If you want to see it, take a look at a Playboy from 1970, 1980, 1990. Attraction is pretty malleable.
I hear everything you're saying and it maybe applies in certain circumstances to select few people but just look around you. Plenty of conventionally unattractive people are still getting laid and getting married. You seem to be talking about a small class of people who are able to be ultra picky. It just doesn't apply to most people and fugly people hook up every day. And those who can afford to be picky still have to work pretty hard to maintain themselves and be worthwhile to be around. I wouldn't call it easy.
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"Attraction is something we have absolutely no control over"
Actually, we do. If you want to see it, take a look at a Playboy from 1970, 1980, 1990. Attraction is pretty malleable.
I hear everything you're saying and it maybe applies in certain circumstances to select few people but just look around you. Plenty of conventionally unattractive people are still getting laid and getting married. You seem to be talking about a small class of people who are able to be ultra picky. It just doesn't apply to most people and fugly people hook up every day. And those who can afford to be picky still have to work pretty hard to maintain themselves and be worthwhile to be around. I wouldn't call it easy.