some girls don't like having others take their picture (bad angles....they look fat......they look old.....or some other reason to feel insecure), if they didn't take selfies there would be no pictures of them anywhere. In a selfie, you control everything and you have the final say in what comes out. its not a conceit thing, most of the time, its a feeling of insecurity, that is why they do it (i'm one of those girls).
Actually, people who are insecure about themselves are anything but vain....they just want for one moment in their lives, to feel attractive and normal, the rest of the time, especially when other people take pictures of them, they feel hideous
Are you suggesting that people who take selfies should just never take their picture again and have a blank space on their social network profiles? No exactly conducive to making new friends or even keeping the ones you have interested in you.....having no pictures anywhere means that they will probably become friendless and invisible
lol you don't become invisible if you don't post a selfie to social media haha you're putting too much emphasis on your online identity if you think that
Is it normal to be turned off by girls who take selfies?
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some girls don't like having others take their picture (bad angles....they look fat......they look old.....or some other reason to feel insecure), if they didn't take selfies there would be no pictures of them anywhere. In a selfie, you control everything and you have the final say in what comes out. its not a conceit thing, most of the time, its a feeling of insecurity, that is why they do it (i'm one of those girls).
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Yeah its totally posed thats why its a turn off to me. You can sense the insecurity and vanity in them which arent attractive traits!
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Actually, people who are insecure about themselves are anything but vain....they just want for one moment in their lives, to feel attractive and normal, the rest of the time, especially when other people take pictures of them, they feel hideous
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now we're getting to the bottom of this. You can see why it's a turn off and why its so fake
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Are you suggesting that people who take selfies should just never take their picture again and have a blank space on their social network profiles? No exactly conducive to making new friends or even keeping the ones you have interested in you.....having no pictures anywhere means that they will probably become friendless and invisible
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lol you don't become invisible if you don't post a selfie to social media haha you're putting too much emphasis on your online identity if you think that
since when does your image determine friendship? what kind of shallow friends do you have?
no just use a picture taken of them by someone else it's pretty simple