(oops) out there for a reason. Honestly your husband should be supporting and standing up for you when it comes to his family. You mentioned you were considering divorcee. Have you told your husband about these thoughts? If not, perhaps he may be will realize how much this truely hurts you.
Tori: for your husband's sake the two of you should sit down with his dad and review his will. If there are any momentos (pictures/albums, figures-things he collected) that have special meaning to him be sure it's spelled out in dad's will that the items go to your hubby. Granted his passing first would mean the bulk goes to step-mom but it will safe gaurd some things. My friend ended up in a similar situation, but both her parents had remarried. When mom died she got nothing and didn't get anything of dad's till after step-mom died and her kids decided they didn't want it (which wasn't much).
Is it normal to be treated bad by inlaws while others are not?
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(oops) out there for a reason. Honestly your husband should be supporting and standing up for you when it comes to his family. You mentioned you were considering divorcee. Have you told your husband about these thoughts? If not, perhaps he may be will realize how much this truely hurts you.
Tori: for your husband's sake the two of you should sit down with his dad and review his will. If there are any momentos (pictures/albums, figures-things he collected) that have special meaning to him be sure it's spelled out in dad's will that the items go to your hubby. Granted his passing first would mean the bulk goes to step-mom but it will safe gaurd some things. My friend ended up in a similar situation, but both her parents had remarried. When mom died she got nothing and didn't get anything of dad's till after step-mom died and her kids decided they didn't want it (which wasn't much).
Good luck to you both!!