I sAid no it's not normal on your in-laws part. I kinda have the same problem. My father in law adores me. My step mother in law appears to care but after being married for 30 years I finally figured her out. She is two faced. Her side of the family comes first in love, caring, spending time with them. When my husbands dad asks us to spend the night(they live 2 hours away) she cringes. I see her face and it's disgusting. Her side spends weeks there. I'm also tired of her bashing my husbands sister. She's not even allowed at their house anymore. When I stand up for her my husband says I'm making trouble. All the bad stuff happens when my father in law isn't in the same room. When they someday die, we expect to get nothing if his dad goes first. He is in his eighties and on poor health. Her side will get everything. I don't care really, but I will feel my husbands pain and disgust. I hope it will get better for you. I could tell you more horror stories about this woman but I would just more upset. Good luck to you!!
Sorry to hear that you have a similar issue, but i do admire you for being married so long! I expect the same thing if they die. Everything will go to his brother he is the favorite.
Is it normal to be treated bad by inlaws while others are not?
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I sAid no it's not normal on your in-laws part. I kinda have the same problem. My father in law adores me. My step mother in law appears to care but after being married for 30 years I finally figured her out. She is two faced. Her side of the family comes first in love, caring, spending time with them. When my husbands dad asks us to spend the night(they live 2 hours away) she cringes. I see her face and it's disgusting. Her side spends weeks there. I'm also tired of her bashing my husbands sister. She's not even allowed at their house anymore. When I stand up for her my husband says I'm making trouble. All the bad stuff happens when my father in law isn't in the same room. When they someday die, we expect to get nothing if his dad goes first. He is in his eighties and on poor health. Her side will get everything. I don't care really, but I will feel my husbands pain and disgust. I hope it will get better for you. I could tell you more horror stories about this woman but I would just more upset. Good luck to you!!
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Sorry to hear that you have a similar issue, but i do admire you for being married so long! I expect the same thing if they die. Everything will go to his brother he is the favorite.