Is it normal to be toooo into your boyfriend?

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I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. When we met I was going thru a lot of things. My parents divorce, losing a lot of my friends. So i was basically alone. We started dating and things we fine. I act distant at the beginning of every relationship bc i am independent. well that soon changed. He would freak out if i didn't text back in 5 mins. And would get mad when i would not text if i was with friends. So eventually he stopped doing it, and it rubbed off of me. I never go out, but he does and i get jealous. I want his attention when he is out. I get really mad when he doesn't text back soon enough feeling like he jusr forgot about me. I am always wondering what he is doing and why he can't text me. Its driving me crazy because I am acting so stupid. I just wish i was more independent. I want to stop acting this way, its ruining my happiness & relationship. How can I start to be more distant?

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  • mtnw
    13 years ago | pl

    not more distant, more trusting is what i think you should try for. after all, if he isn't doing anything wrong, why pester him.

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  • screwface69er
    12 years ago | pl

    The way I see it, let him go out if he cheats on you dump him hes not worth having. If he comes home to you happy days!

    Loyalty is nothing untill it is tested.

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  • retro
    12 years ago | pl

    its surprisingly normal, if ur boyfriend is happy everytime he sees u then its normal i kinda envy him

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  • TheTrueBen
    13 years ago | pl

    This sounds exactly like my current relationship. In the beginning, I was the jeleous one, and then I realised I just needed to lay off a bit. Now, 2 years down the line, my girlfriend doesn't have much of a life outside of me. I keep trying to get her to go out and socialise, but I understand it's hard for her, considering how she's pretty much given everything (friends included) up for me. I never asked her to, but I guess she thought that it'd make me happy or less jeleous. Try and relax about the whole situation, trust him the same way you wish he'd trusted you at the start of the relationship.

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