Is it normal to be too shy?

Me and my mate are proper cowards when it comes to meeting someone. We either dont know what to say or just say the inappropriate thing. So does everyone have this situation or what are the best ways. Also give me some funny chat up lines, could be a laugh. The cheesier the better.

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  • sherry

    You're born that way. You need to force yourself into social situations to desensitize yourself. Take the initiative. It reduces stress. It's like giving your speech first. When I was young i was very shy. When I trained for my profession, I was placed in many humiliating situations. Guess what? It doesn't kill you. After a while you get used to being on the spot socially and then you get kind of good at it . All ways ask yourself: Whats the worst thing that can happen? And really, others really don't care if you mess up as much as you think.

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  • Everyone are a bit shy but there are people who really are to much shy, like you.
    My best friend used to be shy as hell in his childhood, and now he is getting all the chicks, i mean to say that as you grow up, your shyness starts to go away, BUT it wont do itself, you have to work with it!

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  • Uzzie101

    "Well you must be Lucifer himself...because you look like a fallen angel...;)"

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  • heeraklee

    go back to highschool that is small and take speech class again. that helped me

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  • Prettykat2

    I'm the same. I can't go into a room with even1 person in it.

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  • out2getsum

    it is normal to be shy, i'm glad I'M not the only one to be shy on this here planet, ya kno wat im sayin' sonn!!!!lol

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  • Jim_Pfoss

    Well, I think this is a total fake. You don't seem shy to me if you are looking for cheesy chat-ups.

    But I can't resist posting a few to get your list started:

    1. Wanna' go play in the dark?
    2. You look like your name should be "Sunshine."
    3. If I said you had a beautiful body, would you hold it against me? (boy, that's an old one. I think it's from a CW song).

    If you score with any of these, I get sloppy seconds.

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  • iwondered

    yea its normal, im also shy. And heres a REALLY chessy line; if i were a computer you'd turn me on. JK JK JK don't say that, but is pretty chessy :) also try to losen up! you only live once.

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    • 1sheepfull

      lol love it! how about,
      ur like a butterfly, beautiful to look at, and hard to catch.
      does it get cheesier.

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      • iwondered

        lol nice one
        and yes they get WAY cheesier

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