There is nothing wrong with being sad. Sit by the water and cry in solitude if you want to. Bask in the melancholy. Emotions weren't given to us to be ignored.
Your friends may just be uncomfortable with your change in attitude and are simply telling you the best thing they can think of to say. People usually feel obligated to say something and they are just unconsciously trying to make things normal again. They also may have missed you while you were occupied with the relationship. Just tell them nicely what you need.
Being positive isn't just being happy all the time, it is seeing the good in a rotten situation. You don't necessarily have to be happy to understand that there is beauty in the breakdown. It's a bittersweet symphony, this life. Knowing that something good can come from something that seems really bad will help you get through this phase.
IIN to be too honest with yourself?
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There is nothing wrong with being sad. Sit by the water and cry in solitude if you want to. Bask in the melancholy. Emotions weren't given to us to be ignored.
Your friends may just be uncomfortable with your change in attitude and are simply telling you the best thing they can think of to say. People usually feel obligated to say something and they are just unconsciously trying to make things normal again. They also may have missed you while you were occupied with the relationship. Just tell them nicely what you need.
Being positive isn't just being happy all the time, it is seeing the good in a rotten situation. You don't necessarily have to be happy to understand that there is beauty in the breakdown. It's a bittersweet symphony, this life. Knowing that something good can come from something that seems really bad will help you get through this phase.