I feel like that too, but Im in a commited m/f relationship, and have a family. Ive told my wife of my thoughts and desires, and apparently, i should've "sown my wild oats" before entering a relationship. She isn't cool with it, and calls me a fag sometimes. I am not gay, just possible bi-curious. Get your chance while single, and it'll make a world of difference. I never had a thought in my mind of being romantically involved with another man, just jacking off or oral, i dunno, and wont find out. My wife is perfect in every other way, and i love her greatly anyways. Wants sex ALWAYS!
That's horrible that she feels that way about your bi-curious desires. They are totally natural though. Don't ever think that something is wrong with you because of them.
I understand if she doesn't want you to have sex with anyone but her, but she shouldn't hate on you for just thinking these thoughts and for confiding in her.
I'm glad she is perfect in every other way, but she really needs to lay off you and stop calling you a fag. I hope it's just a reaction of surprise from her and not just flat out hate. Even then, that's not a healthy reaction to have.
You should consider trying to explain to her that what your feeling is a natural part of being a human being. If she loves you she will eventually come to accept that about yourself.
IIN to be to ashamed to let anyone know I'm bisexual?
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I feel like that too, but Im in a commited m/f relationship, and have a family. Ive told my wife of my thoughts and desires, and apparently, i should've "sown my wild oats" before entering a relationship. She isn't cool with it, and calls me a fag sometimes. I am not gay, just possible bi-curious. Get your chance while single, and it'll make a world of difference. I never had a thought in my mind of being romantically involved with another man, just jacking off or oral, i dunno, and wont find out. My wife is perfect in every other way, and i love her greatly anyways. Wants sex ALWAYS!
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That's horrible that she feels that way about your bi-curious desires. They are totally natural though. Don't ever think that something is wrong with you because of them.
I understand if she doesn't want you to have sex with anyone but her, but she shouldn't hate on you for just thinking these thoughts and for confiding in her.
I'm glad she is perfect in every other way, but she really needs to lay off you and stop calling you a fag. I hope it's just a reaction of surprise from her and not just flat out hate. Even then, that's not a healthy reaction to have.
You should consider trying to explain to her that what your feeling is a natural part of being a human being. If she loves you she will eventually come to accept that about yourself.
Good luck.