"Well believe it or not, my imagines are realistic"
You may want to induce realism into the fantasy but it's still a fantasy.
And sure I understand that you don't like boys your age... most likely you're at an age where the boys are still acting like puppies and not very mature. And that doesn't fit into your image of what a real man is.
But beyond having a romance with an imaginary friend who can't really love you, you're going to face other problems with everything else you've added.
If you want to have *men* and not boys, you'll have to understand most men want *women*. Sure you'll find some that like younger girls... but many of them aren't after romance as much as they're after a girl they can control and use.
Then, since you apparently think everyone in town is a "whiny bitch" you run the risk of having no friends who will be there for you when things go bad.
In other words, you're setting yourself up to be hurt - either by the dreams you have, or your own imagination. And when pretend turns to dust if you have no friends who care about you it will be a very lonely place.
Again, I was generalizing. By ''everyone'' I meant the majority of people, I have plenty of friends at school, and believe it or not, I put a kind front to everyone I meet, unless they give me a reason not to.
I'll never be lonely because I love the friends that I do have - I'll never be completely alone, but, I agree with what you say ONLY in a romantic way. And ''when pretend turns to dust'', who said it ever had to fade away?
The only reason I'm keeping with this is because no one's right for me. If I find someone real that can sway my thoughts then, good for me.
Is it normal to be THIS in love with a fictional character?
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"Well believe it or not, my imagines are realistic"
You may want to induce realism into the fantasy but it's still a fantasy.
And sure I understand that you don't like boys your age... most likely you're at an age where the boys are still acting like puppies and not very mature. And that doesn't fit into your image of what a real man is.
But beyond having a romance with an imaginary friend who can't really love you, you're going to face other problems with everything else you've added.
If you want to have *men* and not boys, you'll have to understand most men want *women*. Sure you'll find some that like younger girls... but many of them aren't after romance as much as they're after a girl they can control and use.
Then, since you apparently think everyone in town is a "whiny bitch" you run the risk of having no friends who will be there for you when things go bad.
In other words, you're setting yourself up to be hurt - either by the dreams you have, or your own imagination. And when pretend turns to dust if you have no friends who care about you it will be a very lonely place.
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Eh, real enough for me.
Again, I was generalizing. By ''everyone'' I meant the majority of people, I have plenty of friends at school, and believe it or not, I put a kind front to everyone I meet, unless they give me a reason not to.
I'll never be lonely because I love the friends that I do have - I'll never be completely alone, but, I agree with what you say ONLY in a romantic way. And ''when pretend turns to dust'', who said it ever had to fade away?
The only reason I'm keeping with this is because no one's right for me. If I find someone real that can sway my thoughts then, good for me.
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yeah but there's things real men can do to you that no fantasy can accomplish.
believe me... no amount of pretend whispers in the night can be the same as a real man's touch. no matter how real you pretend it feels.
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you make me sick
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O? Do tell.
This may be amusing.
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ill keep you guessing
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*shrug* No, I'll just lose interest.
That's true.
Can I just say how much I love your username. Very poetic.