Is it normal to be THIS in love with a fictional character?

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  • tentacleTherapist
    11 years ago | pl

    Well believe it or not, my imagines are realistic. ''We've'' had are ups and downs in the past. I could explain it deeper, but I guess that information supplies enough so that you understand, and you probably wouldn't want to hear it anyways.

    Well if I'm thinking, especially dreaming, it's not like I control everything. I once had a dream that I had given birth to 'our child', and the dream resulted in him killing it.

    I get what you mean - I'm sorry, I worded that incorrectly; I meant to say real BOYS are boring, and I'm into MEN. Sorry, I left that detail out. At my age, I find it pretty hard to have an older man interested in me, too young and...what's the word..well, typical things, for them.

    That's my problem, I've just about thought of every possible scenario, and coming up with new ones within my range of thinking, another reason they're so boring...Though I suppose I DO want a real person, someday, though I'm not sure how to go about that..

    Also, thank you for your input. I love talking to people since everyone in my town is a whiny bitch ♥

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    • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
      11 years ago | pl

      "Well believe it or not, my imagines are realistic"

      You may want to induce realism into the fantasy but it's still a fantasy.

      And sure I understand that you don't like boys your age... most likely you're at an age where the boys are still acting like puppies and not very mature. And that doesn't fit into your image of what a real man is.

      But beyond having a romance with an imaginary friend who can't really love you, you're going to face other problems with everything else you've added.

      If you want to have *men* and not boys, you'll have to understand most men want *women*. Sure you'll find some that like younger girls... but many of them aren't after romance as much as they're after a girl they can control and use.

      Then, since you apparently think everyone in town is a "whiny bitch" you run the risk of having no friends who will be there for you when things go bad.

      In other words, you're setting yourself up to be hurt - either by the dreams you have, or your own imagination. And when pretend turns to dust if you have no friends who care about you it will be a very lonely place.

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      • tentacleTherapist
        11 years ago | pl

        Eh, real enough for me.

        Again, I was generalizing. By ''everyone'' I meant the majority of people, I have plenty of friends at school, and believe it or not, I put a kind front to everyone I meet, unless they give me a reason not to.

        I'll never be lonely because I love the friends that I do have - I'll never be completely alone, but, I agree with what you say ONLY in a romantic way. And ''when pretend turns to dust'', who said it ever had to fade away?

        The only reason I'm keeping with this is because no one's right for me. If I find someone real that can sway my thoughts then, good for me.

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