Everyone talking about dumping, or he's using you and all this nonsense... The thing is, he wants to marry you. You want to marry him. This is just the first bump in the road, and marriage (as well as life) is nowhere near as smooth as people may think it is. Anything is manageable if you two can work together and stay on the same page.
Here is a very unpopular suggestion, but try finding a cheaper place (who cares if it's small, because it's temporary). Next, you both need to make sacrifices (as in, look around the apartment/house you two live in and see what you two can live without). Also, have a donation jar where he can place $10, $5, or any amount you two agree on in the jar when he gets paid. Lastly, be realistic, don't do that us against the world nonsense or love conquers all; you two are a couple in real life, not movie characters.
If you really don't want to move, or he can't spare any money, then try to see if he can live on campus and you find your own place for a while. Good luck.
Is it normal to be this fed up with my fiancé?
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Everyone talking about dumping, or he's using you and all this nonsense... The thing is, he wants to marry you. You want to marry him. This is just the first bump in the road, and marriage (as well as life) is nowhere near as smooth as people may think it is. Anything is manageable if you two can work together and stay on the same page.
Here is a very unpopular suggestion, but try finding a cheaper place (who cares if it's small, because it's temporary). Next, you both need to make sacrifices (as in, look around the apartment/house you two live in and see what you two can live without). Also, have a donation jar where he can place $10, $5, or any amount you two agree on in the jar when he gets paid. Lastly, be realistic, don't do that us against the world nonsense or love conquers all; you two are a couple in real life, not movie characters.
If you really don't want to move, or he can't spare any money, then try to see if he can live on campus and you find your own place for a while. Good luck.