Is it normal to be this confused about your sexuality

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So I'm 22 and I've never kissed anyone let alone done anything sexual except with my sister (just a little bit and I've stopped that now and it's a different story anyway)... I'm fairly sure I'm a lesbian but then when it comes to fictional characters... Well, they are few and far between but sometimes I like to imagine myself with male characters but the difference is that I'm male in my fantasies, not female like I am in real life and also he has to be submissive and not at all in control. Also I once imagined I was male and had a boyfriend in real life and found that kinda hot even though I would never ever actually want a boyfriend... So yeah, this makes me more than a little confused.

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  • anti-hero
    10 years ago | pl

    You can't just skip over lezzin' out with your sister. This is IIN, that isn't how it works. If you bring it up, you have to give us the details so we can judge you and make jokes at your expense. You must be new here.

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    • YoungLunatic
      10 years ago

      that is so true and funny in the same time.

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  • quentari
    10 years ago

    bisexual? curious? heteroflexible? Only you can work out this one. Masturbation fantasies don't always reflect whet we'd ever do in real life. That's why it's a FANTASY.

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  • yesnomaybeso
    10 years ago

    Man you really seem so confused.

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  • TheHelpfulPancake
    10 years ago

    Well, I would say that it's normal to be confused about your sexuality, but it's not normal to project these sexual frustrations on your sister. If you picture yourself being male, I would say that you might be transgendered.

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    • quentari
      10 years ago

      not necessarily. Could be penis envy or quite a few girls have fantasies about being male during sex but wouldn't ever want to be one permanently (tbh I think most of those girls enjoy slash lol)

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