I can't break up with her because I'm so in love with her. I could say no, but I know that she would be unhappy because sex is very important to her. She is slowly trying to get me to be turned on by it.
Sex with YOU should be the thing that's important to her.
She can't just treat sexual gratification like something to be served to her on a plate by whoever or whatever is offering it. Sex is the chemistry of YOUR bodies and emotions, your relationship is about YOU and HER. The sex is part of the fabric of that 'you-and-her'-ness. If she has another lover, it'll become 'you-and-her-and-someone-else' - or maybe even 'her-and-someone-else' with you on the side.
I would never agree to this situation. I would be heartbroken if my man treated my body and our physical bond like a commodity he could get more or less of by getting another body from somewhere else. Sex isn't just sex - it's sex with SOMEONE.
Your dignity comes first. You are 50% of your relationship and love is about respect, not about gorging yourself on another person's flesh.
Don't let her treat you and your body like a replaceable thing. Say no.
I've seen this scenario before. Each time, they got dumped for the other person. You can let her have a side lover, but be aware that that shit could happen to you too.
IIN to be thinking about agreeing to my GF having a lover?
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So do you think I should say yes?
I can't break up with her because I'm so in love with her. I could say no, but I know that she would be unhappy because sex is very important to her. She is slowly trying to get me to be turned on by it.
Not sure what to do.....
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Sex with YOU should be the thing that's important to her.
She can't just treat sexual gratification like something to be served to her on a plate by whoever or whatever is offering it. Sex is the chemistry of YOUR bodies and emotions, your relationship is about YOU and HER. The sex is part of the fabric of that 'you-and-her'-ness. If she has another lover, it'll become 'you-and-her-and-someone-else' - or maybe even 'her-and-someone-else' with you on the side.
I would never agree to this situation. I would be heartbroken if my man treated my body and our physical bond like a commodity he could get more or less of by getting another body from somewhere else. Sex isn't just sex - it's sex with SOMEONE.
Your dignity comes first. You are 50% of your relationship and love is about respect, not about gorging yourself on another person's flesh.
Don't let her treat you and your body like a replaceable thing. Say no.
I've seen this scenario before. Each time, they got dumped for the other person. You can let her have a side lover, but be aware that that shit could happen to you too.
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That's what I'm afraid of.....