Is it normal to be suspicious of your girlfriend?

Hey! So today, I've been wondering, is my girl cheating on me? I've been going through her Facebook wall and seen nothing. The real problem starts that when we talk on the phone, either she never picks up, or she talks for 15 minutes and has to go. Her and me have had infedility problems before, I flirted with a girl online but never really got physical. I understand that I broke her trust. I want to talk to her about it but I don't want to accuse her and make it seem like I don't trust her. What questions should I ask her so that I don't come off like I don't trust her. She's really sweet. I have a feeling I'm just paranoid since I flirted before, so I think she thinks like me. Can someone please back me up? Thanks! :)

Is It Normal?
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  • you can't go by what you see on facebook man,talk to her in person

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  • what kind of a faggot wants to talk on the phone for more than 15 minutes anyways?? come on its 2010! she sounds more like a real man than you do. sphhh phone.
    oh ya and i hope she is cheating on you because you were flirting with that other girl online how dare you!

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  • That really doesn't sound like it means anything.

    Just ask her if there's any reason she's doing this, she might really be busy or just dislike talking over the phone - or there might be something that's troubling her. Make sure she's okay before bugging her or accusing her of anything.

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  • Maybe she just hates talking on the phone. I can't stand it. My boyfriend and I live together but when he goes out of town, we barely even talk on the phone when he's at the hotel. I don't think this is a good reason to think she's cheating on you.

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  • Yup, text is the "new phone conversation", no one spends more than a half hr on the phone, unless u talking to granny or a bill collector

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