Is it normal to be straight but be into gay stuff

Not good with coming up with title names.

When it comes to orientation, I consider myself straight, and romantically only interested in women. However for a pretty long time now (at least the past year or so), I've been really into gay porn and shit.

I've been looking at porn since I was like 12ish years old (I've seen stuff before that, but in terms of actively searching for it, around 12). Am almost 24 now, and I still look at porn a lot, it simply being something I find interesting and like seeing new things. I very rarely looked at anything gay in the past (only on a few occasions out of curiosity i guess) however for a good while now, not sure how long, at least the past year, I've started viewing straight up gay porn a lot more. Now of days when it comes to looking up porn I look at both types of it.

The thing is, I consider myself straight and don't know if i'd consider myself bi or anything like that (I find the thought of romantically being with a dude completely disgusting). But despite that I really want to try having sex with a man. That's way easier said than done, I'm not just going to go out and do it with some stranger, i wouldn't even know where to begin. One person I've been wanting to try it with is my best bud that I've known since we were like 7. when we were younger we experimented with things like kids typically do. The last time we tried things was when I was 13 or 14, in which we did try having sex, however I didn't know much about how men do it, and couldn't get it in. to this day we're still best buds, but he stopped letting me try things since back then.

so pretty much, is it normal for someone that considers themselves straight to want to try out gay sex? :/

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  • You have quite a way with words.

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  • I wouldn't worry about it mate. First of all, we live in an age when you can do or rather be 'whatever you want' within reason. We all put ourselves and each other in boxes: gay, straight, chav, emo... you know what I mean.

    The point I'm trying to make is 'who cares' and what does it matter. If you know you're straight, don't worry about it. When girls try the lesbian thing no one blinks... why can't we do the same?

    If you want to do it, then do. No one needs to know if you don't want them to!! At worst it's an experience you won't try again. At best, well I don't know, I've never tried it... maybe I will!!

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    • You're a smart fellow. I should have read this first before posting and save myself the first 3 quarters of it xD

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  • Totally normal I'm straight but fantasize about men and women alike.

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  • Let me tell you something. No real straight men ever constantly have feelings like you for the same sex. I can tell you that by being a real straight man who in his 49 years of life never ever been attracted to another man, and the thought of another man's balls/dick is enough to disgust me. Pheonix Runner said its very common among girls, fact is nope, only the lesbian counterpart but must girls I dated are disgusted by the idea. And the question of trying it with a man? Why should I try something with someone I am not attracted to in the least, not a single masculine feature ever aroused me in my life and the only thing I enjoy doing with my own dick is banging hot young girl pussies. Also you said your girl is ok with it, its common for girls to do that because it doesnt count to them as anything much, try it with another girl and she will break up instantly. Same way if I ever dated a bi girl I would be ok with her lesbian affair but if she does it with a man only then I will count it cheating and ditch her instantly, cause I dont want anything to do with another man in my sex life. I have dated pleanty of girls since I was in high school and as long as we were together we were commited, something which you are not which shows a terrible person you are.

    You might call a pet cat a dog, but it will never change the fact that it is in fact a cat. Labels and definitions are not forfced into anyone, but it is given to them based on their feelings and actions. You having those feelings don't speak on behalf of straight men, but I fulfill the label of straight because I have zero attraction to the same sex and I find nothing hotter than hot young girls. To me homosexuality is a mental illness and if sex with the same sex is ok, so is sex between a man and an animal (bestiality). Why should it not be? A man ass banging a horse should be the same as a man ass banging a another man. Many people even support bestiality and it is legal in places like Denmark and even in USA incidents of animal brothels have been reported, look up Enumclaw horse sex. But fact remains I am attracted to neither homosexuality or bestiality. Yes I have no right to condemn people like you who do, neither do I do but I am showing you that you are not like me, you are not a real straight man, and you are a bisexual. Disagree all you want but that will not change this fact. But leave us real straight people alone. We dont want to be a part of your kind, so why do you want to be a part of us? Stick to your own kind. Attracted to your own sex, go do your stuffs, but we have nothing to do with it, we are not into such disgusting stuffs, no straight men constantly boasts about having feelings for their own gender and you don't speak on behalf of us. Aregue with me all you want but that will only show you defensive about the shoit, infact you are probabally the gay troll who made those fake accounts which commented here and are only a few hours old to agree with your idea (pheonixrunner, inc9901 and rtlg4711 are only few hours old, anbout the same time this post was written and were written only to comment on it and show people agree which do not). You are a disgrace to real men like George Washington, Napoleon and Simon Bolivar liberated countries with their enigmatic leadership and in their personal life were famous for their romance with hot women. I find nothing more despicable and useless thing to do with your life than cross dressing and an insult to men like them and my reply to your rtlg4711 account

    I don't have a problem with gays, but gays who claim to be straight disgust me! I am sure you are gay pretending to be straight, to find out whether real straight men wanna try your crap. Answer is No!!! Just stick to your own kind, we don't go interfering in your lives and could care less what you do, why do you want to be called one of us? Butt hurt that straight men reject your feelings? You are either a gay troll pretending to be straight or a closet gay. Either ways real straight people could care less, and being a straight man, I find the thought of naked men fucking each others disgusting. Infact I prefer lesbian porns over straight ones because I cant stand other naked men and its the hot girl getting fucked that turns me on, not who is fucking her. The fact that you talk about your ''feminine'' looking things shows you are just an attention seeking queer, and to me there is nothing more disgusting than effeminate/hermaphrodite men with feminine things. A gay guy once said me he finds shirtless guys with muscles on a gym hot. I train on a gym myself and find them disgusting and have never spoken to that fag again, and its only fags that find those shits attractive. But nothing turns me on more than the sexy feminine figures of the sexy girls on our local bar and sexy models with nice tits. Jenifer Lopez is my life long crush (other straight men prefers other actresses, but for me Lopez was and stillis my dream girl) But you wont understand that and have no right to judge real straight men with your own faggy perception because you are not one of us no matter how much you lie about it. So keep your fantasies to yourself and you are not straight and don't pretend to be one!

    I know you might wimp out and delete my reply and it will show only your cowardliness you straight guy pretending gay cross dressing effeminate loser and I wil post it again if you do!!!

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    • Wow, that sounds very homophobic and mean, and was completely unnecessary.
      I do think he probably is a gay man in the closet though, it's society that makes him not coming out.

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    • Seems to me that a lot of you that claim to be "disgusted" by "gay" sex, sure read about it and comment about it a great deal. Could it be that you really get turned on by the thought of having a cock in your mouth or up your ass?

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    • tl;dr

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  • Totally normal! You haven't lived until you have a cock in your mouth or up your ass! Be sure to swallow the cum and have the guy cum in your ass...it's a sensation you'll never regret!

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  • Categories (like: straight, gay, homo, bisex, ...) are made from men to judge and try to rationalize things: sometimes that's good and useful, but not when it is applied to sex.
    Just DON NOT think about categories and everything will be all right! ;)

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  • Totally normal man. Sounds like you just need to really trust and know a buddy in order to follow through with your desires. I'm sure you'll have that opportunity at some point.

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  • Congratulations, you're probably gay.
    It's very frequent for women to have lesbian thoughts, considering how the female body is being sexualized nowadays but it is pretty unlikely for a man to have gay thoughts.

    It's okay though, you can deal with this.

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  • Or maybe the guy just finds gay porn titillating as he gains sexual interest and experience? Watching gay porn doesn't make you gay!

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  • To my way of thinking, you are absolutely normal. Variety is the spice of life, for the open-minded.
    Straight you may be, yet this world is so full of differences, that one could never come to understand it all. You at least speak out and say what is on your mind.
    I am well past my prime and for the past eight or nine years, I have suddenly discovered the wonders of Crossdressing. I have been married twice and have grown-up children ... now adults with a family of their own. I dress up because I simply love it and it has absolutely nothing to do with sexuality or the absolute desire to be treated like a woman, by another man. I am as straight as you are, or as you say you are.
    Having said that, I have fantasies of being taken by a male and feeling him inside me. That's all it is ... pure fantasy.
    I totally adore women and I love their bodies, so that is perhaps why I frock-up in lingerie, dresses, skirts and tops and feel as close to being one, as I can.
    Dream away and remain your true self, irrespective of what others think because those that cast stones the most, usually have something to hide.

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    • I've always had an interest in guys cumming i guess, when it comes to porn if the videos don't end with the guys finishing it almost always feels incomplete. In some ways I guess you can say I have an interest in cum, and when i finally got more into watching gay porn it raised my interest in it and anal sex a lot more, and I get a strong desire from time to time now, wanting to know how it feels to have one inside me. My experiences with anal sex is very limited since I don't have a guy I can just get it over with, and buying male sex toys is definitely something I don't want to risk being found out by the people I live with. I bought two online, timing things where they'd arrive on days with no one else here. toys don't really cut it, they're nice and all, but not very convenient. Having an actual person would make it a lot easier and would get a lot more out of it

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      • Absolutely not! Toys are just that. I have used them and they always fall short of the real thing. Or at least that is what I

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  • You're probably bi but have been told for so long that being gay is bad and gross that you can't picture yourself being with a guy. Ultimately it doesn't matter at all if you are attracted to men or not, you definitely prefer women, so you're straight! It's called sexual 'preference' for a reason.

    The only thing i would warn against is keeping the fact that you look at gay porn from a significant other. Do you have one?

    If you do in the future or are currently in a relationship i would bring this up with them. If it's a big enough deal to make a IIN post about then it would be a big secret to keep and depending on the woman could be seen as a betrayal.

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    • Last thing I want is for others to find out I want to try things with dudes.

      I could never be romantically into a dude, I simply find dudes ugly as shit. A big thing is I really want to know what it's like to go the other way and how all that feel.

      I don't have a significant other at this time, although I am pursuing a fem coworker of mine. She's a very accepting person of all that stuff, so I'd imagine if I did anything before I'd be with her she most likely wouldn't care.

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      • Yeah man as i said you've been too influenced in the past to want to persue men now. If that is really how you feel i would be very cautious about actually trying something with a man. It's very likely it will just feel wrong. If you really just can't kill the curiosity then wtv go for it but you might regret it. And if you're not even looking for anything but sex is it really worth it?

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