Is it normal to be straight and find parts of other males sexy/attractive?

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I don't have any interest in sleeping with a man. But I seem to be able to get turned on by guys in provocative pictures. I don't have a lust for THEM as their pictures just get me in the mood. Like, I can see a guy with a nice ass or dick and be like "Wow, that's impressive." But I have no interest in doing them. I'm confused here. I'd like some wholesome advice because it's difficult figuring aspects like this out about myself. I'd love some thoughts.

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  • Jxanuary
    3 years ago | pl

    Yes you're perfectly fine. Admiring others of the same gender is completely normal.

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    • Resurgam53
      3 years ago

      I’m glad to see there’s someone else on IIN that has a brain!

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  • Resurgam53
    3 years ago

    Every male, whether they admit it or not, have the same fantasies and desires for another male. Some of us just act on those desires. There’s nothing wrong with it, so yeah, very normal!

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    • d0esnormalmatter
      3 years ago

      That's totally wrong you ignorant faaag

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      • Resurgam53
        3 years ago

        Sorry dude, but you’re the ignorant one. I studied and have a minor in adolescent psychology. It’s widely accepted in the field, that most every child’s first sexual attraction is with a person of the same sex, male/male, female/female (spelling it out clearly for your ignorant ass). If I was as ignorant as you, I would keep my mouth shut. Every time you open your big mouth, you show just how really ignorant you are. Being such a homophobic pile of crap is just one example!

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        • d0esnormalmatter
          3 years ago

          Don't believe you. Not everyone is gay I don't care what degree you have.

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          • Resurgam53
            3 years ago

            I didn’t say everyone is gay! I said everyone has thoughts and desires for same sex experiences. If you say otherwise, you’re not only ignorant, you’re also lying to yourself!

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            • d0esnormalmatter
              3 years ago

              Desire for same sex experience = gay with extra steps.

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  • 4sure4you
    3 years ago

    It sure is. Every man has these thoughts of another cock and watching another cock fuck your wife. Most guys too love to watch porn and see a black cok fuck. Everybody different whats turns them on..

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  • Scared2Express
    3 years ago

    Literally feel awful for posting this sh!t now. I don't like people arguing, Nor do I want to be insulted. I'm not gay or bi, it was just a question I had. I don't see what's so "wrong" about being able to admire the human body without having lust associated with it. Am I not allowed to admit a man is attractive? Damn. This really f*ckin hurt. For those who were at my defense, thanks. Those who made me laugh, also thanks.

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  • d0esnormalmatter
    3 years ago

    So you can find other dudes dicks "impressive" but still be straight....

    That word don't mean shit on here lool

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    • Scared2Express
      3 years ago

      Yeah, It's just been a complicated head-space for me.

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      • d0esnormalmatter
        3 years ago

        Oh its not complicated. Lots of things to do with sex are complicated but sexual orientation is not one of them!

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        • Scared2Express
          3 years ago

          A lot of people would argue figuring themselves out can be a very complicated process.

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          • d0esnormalmatter
            3 years ago

            I would argue that those people are compete bafoons.

            The struggle is accepting the outcome not finding the outcome. Your body knows what it fucking wants.

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  • [Old Memory]
    3 years ago

    Maybe you wish to become like them?

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    • Scared2Express
      3 years ago

      Not really. I am proud of who I am and the body I have. Everyone deserves to believe in who they are. I just find the human body a work of art. The right people tend to be aesthetically pleasing.

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      • [Old Memory]
        3 years ago

        Well, that doesn't sound gay to me.

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  • BleedingPain
    3 years ago

    As American dad best wrote, “ It’s only gay if you get a boner.”

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    • FromTheSouthWeirdMan
      3 years ago

      As long as you say no homo.

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      • Scared2Express
        3 years ago

        LOL

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      • BleedingPain
        3 years ago

        You have a cute smile. No homo

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        • FromTheSouthWeirdMan
          3 years ago

          I want to eat your asshole and suck your dick no homo

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          • BleedingPain
            3 years ago

            Bro, homie, my main man, dat shit tight. Hookup after the virus gone? No homo.

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  • RoseIsabella
    3 years ago

    It's pretty gay to be looking at other dudes shlongs.

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  • Resurgam53
    3 years ago

    Yep! The world needs more guys that will pleasure each other, either anal or oral. So yeah, more faggots to choose from would be awesome!

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  • FromTheSouthWeirdMan
    3 years ago

    IIN has a league I call the straight-gays

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  • Mammal-lover
    3 years ago

    It's only gay if you dont enjoy it

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  • Dcdad88
    3 years ago

    Totally normal. Ignore the trolls and don't let others words define you. You do you.

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  • LeonC
    3 years ago

    Nah it's not normal mate, but there's nothing wrong with it. Men finding only woman attractive and vice versa is normal.

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  • RoseIsabella
    3 years ago

    Maybe you are? I dunno. We are what we are, each, and every one of us.

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    • Scared2Express
      3 years ago

      As I put it in another comment,
      "No need to apologize. And I wouldn't go THAT far with a compliment. It's just any display of sexual prowess can get me in the mood to do it. Nothing bad. I just don't have any attraction toward the men I've seen in certain images/settings."

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  • McSorley
    3 years ago

    I can honestly say I've never looked at another dude's trouser snake and thought, "day-yaaaam, that's one fiiiine specimen."

    Yeah. So, uh...I'm...sorry?

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    • Scared2Express
      3 years ago

      No need to apologize. And I wouldn't go THAT far with a compliment. It's just any display of sexual prowess can get me in the mood to do it. Nothing bad. I just don't have any attraction toward the men I've seen in certain images/settings.

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