Is it normal to be spanked daily?

So I've been living with my boyfriend for about a year, and things are great. I love him and he loves me. But there's just one thing -- he insists on giving me a long, hard bare-bottom spanking first thing every morning, and another shorter spanking at night. He thinks that daily spanking helps keep me focussed and on track, and honestly, I think he might be right. I don't really mind it, but is this normal?

Is It Normal?
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  • If you're still there, could you describe what's great about this relationship?

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  • About half of the women I have been with have loved being spanked, becuase it's a turn on for them. But it's only normal if you want it and you like it.

    If you don't give consent, it's abuse.

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  • He's not right, that's silly. Being smacked repeatedly won't help you focus throughout the day. But if you like having THAT done to you then there's nothing wrong with that.

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  • If ur ok with it it fine as its a for bdsm

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  • If you like it then who cares. But no, I have never heard of someone getting spanked because it keeps them focused.

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  • Yes. Most women are naturally turned on by some kind of discipline for a man. Everyone has a kinky side.

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  • I think that's a necessary thing for any relationship.

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  • yes it is normal for a lot of people
    look up cdd christian domestic discipline

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  • The spankings sound too frequent----Could it possibly escalate to something violent??? If the answer is NO then if you both are for it--it is normal and ok--As a guy who gets about two bare paddlings from my wife in a whole year---My butt would be too sore for frequent spankings/ paddlings---I totally have it coming when I get it but my butt really hurts when she has to do it!

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  • It's normal if you like it, but what's not normal is that he's obviously lying to you.

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  • Yeah as long as you are both consenting adults and you love it go ahead be a spankee.

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  • Interesting indeed.
    How about the reverse?
    How about, for the next week or 2 you guys switch roles and you spank?
    There must be something which he needs focus help.

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  • No...

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  • Not it's not normal but whatever.

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  • Thats not normal, next time he does it you should chop off his hand and then slice his jugular

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  • Your boyfriend wants what is best for you. Its completely normal.

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