Most of the things you described are similar to my own situation. Mostly the dealing with depression thing. I don't think it's a bad thing to be picky, unless you are just incredibly lonely. Maybe you just don't get to know people well enough before moving on? A good rule is to be genuinely interested in them, and ask a lot of questions...
But you'll find someone eventually :) It's obvious that your standards aren't absolutely perfect, since there were girls that you liked. It just happened that it didn't fit perfectly, that happens a lot.
But yeah, I feel really unlucky, yet I am quite blessed and lucky at the same time. It's just an awkward state of mind, and I don't know if it is ever possible to get over it.
is it normal to be someone so lucky but unlucky at the same time?
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Most of the things you described are similar to my own situation. Mostly the dealing with depression thing. I don't think it's a bad thing to be picky, unless you are just incredibly lonely. Maybe you just don't get to know people well enough before moving on? A good rule is to be genuinely interested in them, and ask a lot of questions...
But you'll find someone eventually :) It's obvious that your standards aren't absolutely perfect, since there were girls that you liked. It just happened that it didn't fit perfectly, that happens a lot.
But yeah, I feel really unlucky, yet I am quite blessed and lucky at the same time. It's just an awkward state of mind, and I don't know if it is ever possible to get over it.