Thats not caring. What she is doing is trying to bring him down to her level of insecurity. She is frustrated by the fact that he actually is more secure and unaffected than her, so she is deliberately trying to damage him.
It won't work, and the more she tries to do this it will just irritate him and drive him away. Sounds like thats where this relationship is already headed anyways.
All you are trying to do is change him. This whole post is just more evidence that most women have no absolutely no concrete idea what they want in a relationship. If he flip flopped to what you described you'd complain he's too sensitive.
Nah. You're jumping to conclusions and stereotypes which is what closed-minded people do. Think outside of the box for once and realize not everyone especially not every woman is the same. Omg shocker. I just care a lot and want to come down to how can I better my relationship. I want us to grow better. Sometimes people have good intentions underneath it all like I do. Omg another shocker.
Hahaha. You've been posting over and over about your dysfunctional relationship since before I was even a member of this site, and yet you still, STILL discount anyone's advice that doesn't conform to exactly what you want to hear.
It's absolutely ridiculous. Of course, you want to hear that your boyfriend is "too scared to express himself" and "hiding his emotions" because he doesn't want to appear "vulnerable," that way you can just project whatever the fuck crazy you want onto him, and assume that's exactly what he's thinking.
Seriously, when are you going to realise that if you feel the need to make long ranting posts about your boyfriend bimonthly for over a year, then your relationship is not working?
IIN to be so sensitive but hide it really well?
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She sounds like she just cares about him. Nothing wrong with caring.
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Thats not caring. What she is doing is trying to bring him down to her level of insecurity. She is frustrated by the fact that he actually is more secure and unaffected than her, so she is deliberately trying to damage him.
It won't work, and the more she tries to do this it will just irritate him and drive him away. Sounds like thats where this relationship is already headed anyways.
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Yeah I just care. Nothing you said is true and never heard of before. Irrelevant.
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All you are trying to do is change him. This whole post is just more evidence that most women have no absolutely no concrete idea what they want in a relationship. If he flip flopped to what you described you'd complain he's too sensitive.
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Nah. You're jumping to conclusions and stereotypes which is what closed-minded people do. Think outside of the box for once and realize not everyone especially not every woman is the same. Omg shocker. I just care a lot and want to come down to how can I better my relationship. I want us to grow better. Sometimes people have good intentions underneath it all like I do. Omg another shocker.
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Hahaha. You've been posting over and over about your dysfunctional relationship since before I was even a member of this site, and yet you still, STILL discount anyone's advice that doesn't conform to exactly what you want to hear.
It's absolutely ridiculous. Of course, you want to hear that your boyfriend is "too scared to express himself" and "hiding his emotions" because he doesn't want to appear "vulnerable," that way you can just project whatever the fuck crazy you want onto him, and assume that's exactly what he's thinking.
Seriously, when are you going to realise that if you feel the need to make long ranting posts about your boyfriend bimonthly for over a year, then your relationship is not working?
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I feel bad for her bf, i consider this to be a form of abuse
Could not have said it better myself.