Is it normal to be so picky about who i find sexually/physically attra

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I'm in my early twenties but for as long as I can remember, I've only ever found older men attractive.
Not just older men but tall, broad shouldered, naturally big men (not weight wise, natural size wise)

I've never found a man less then 8 inches taller then me attractive. Nor have I ever found skinny guys attractive. I'm not sure it's a "Daddy Issue" since my Bio father is medium height and thin, and my step father was short-medium height and beer bellied.

I just don't know what it is! I'm petite (5"2 100lbs, tiny waist, etc. Though not super skinny, I have meat where I should) but some thing about large hands and massive shoulders just make me weak in the knees. The first guy I ever had a sexual crush on was a friend of my older brother who fit this description perfectly.

Is it normal to be so picky

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago | pl

    It's normal but be careful you might end up sad and lonely looking for that perfect fit.

    Happened to a friend of mine.

    True story.

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  • *12yrgirl*
    10 years ago | pl

    Yes its normal I'm picky about who i have sex with because when i choose i choose the more aggresive guys cuz they usually give it to me rough the way i like it rough

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  • BeautyBodyBrains
    10 years ago | pl

    Totally normal I like to do it everyday.

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  • loldude
    10 years ago | pl

    ok i am 10 and lool up my sex story on here

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  • Shrunk
    10 years ago | pl

    Same but I don't think it's picky, it's just what attracts you most... as long as you don't rule out personality when looking for a true relationship, then sexual attraction should follow...

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago | pl

    Lots of people are really picky, they just have to suffer the mediocre sex life that comes with that territory.

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  • lufa
    10 years ago | pl

    Totally normal. It's interesting though, I'm 5'7" and have dated a couple of girls who were 6', it was a little awkward at first but they were hot so I couldn't resist.

    Though I prefer girls to be around my height. I think that comes from my first serious gf, she was quite amazing so I tend to look for that trait-usually unconsciously in future gfs.

    I'm not really into short girls to be honest, however if she's hot then sure I'd date her.

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  • elaena_targ
    10 years ago | pl

    When I first started dated my boyfriend,he didn't fit my physical "needs" though he still needed to grow XD Now he does...minus the BIG hands, oh well :P

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  • iEatZombies_
    10 years ago | pl

    I'm about that picky, with a different description than you of course.

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  • prasatko
    10 years ago | pl

    You are lucky that you are a woman. If you were a man with such strict or specific criteria of physical appearance, then they would call you shallow and sexist and oppressive and I don´t know what... As a woman you have better chance that nobody will deny you the right to have a specific taste in men, of course, there is nothing wrong with that and it is probably something that is beyond our conscious control.

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    • elaena_targ
      10 years ago | pl

      I could be labelled shallow, though I wouldn't just want to be with said person that fits in my "preference" box. I also put personality into account and temperament. I've become highly attracted to those without my preference because we started off as friends. I'm speaking more of first impression, before you actually see any of the persons personal-emotional pros and cons

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