Is it normal to be so old and still a virgin?

Hi, I'm a 27 year old male and still a virgin. I'm still very insecure about my sexuality and is beginning to affect me and my way of life. I think I'm gay, but I'm not really sure.

When I was younger I've had lots of friends, but never a girlfriend. Well, I had one when I was 16 years old, but never tried anything sexual with her. Only kissed her and that was it.

I feel like I have to take a step and try something with a guy in order to find out for sure, but at the same time I'm VERY scared. Whenever anyone tries to be close to me, I always pushed them away.

Will I ever have the courage to do something, or will I have to suffer like this the rest of my life?

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Comments ( 23 )
  • gamer101

    I am 20 years old never even had a girlfriend mean wile a kiss.

    When a chick friend asked me if I ever have kissed a girl before I said no and when she asked why I told her I was waiting for the right one...Now suddenly she is all over me,chicks like dig a guy thats waiting!

    You rock bro,you should be happy you not some man slut that doesnt even know who he has slept with...Relax and dont worry about it!

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  • regane

    Wait 13 years and they will make a movie about you

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  • PartyGirlRawr

    aw you're so cute! way to go, waiting until you find someone you actually love to do it, no matter their sex <3333

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  • Hasos

    I wanna thank you guys for ALL your comments. This is really helping me in finding myself. And I think I'm beginning to understand what I have to do.

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  • avalonis

    Maybe you're asexual. Maybe you're a dendrophiliac, or attracted to buildings. If not, try out both sexes and see what floats your boat.

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  • xxrawr11wtfxx

    Dude, just be comfortable with yourself. FIND a GIRL, if your attracted to her, talk to her, if she wants to fuck or anything else, tell her you're a V and she'll get it. It's no biggie

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  • roxylinds

    Only one way to find out...

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  • Hasos

    thnx gamer. that means a lot dude.

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  • topleacy

    When I was 27 I met someone who practically had to force me to pay for sex with a local escort. It was amazing… totally gorgeous woman and very understanding… then once I had that first time out the way… within a year I had my first regular girlfriend. I still have problems but getting that first time out the way relieves a lot of the pressure that our culture imposes on us.

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  • b454

    I understand if your confused but maybe your thinking about it too much, therefore stressing out too much. if you think you gay, then your gay. I think your worrying too much. Other people aren't putting as much thought into it like you are. Find a guy, kiss him, and youl know for sure. Don't be so stressed about it!!!!!! Its not like your the only gay person in the world

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  • boopgirl17

    I'm in a similar situation, I want to find somebody, but I feel like I couldn't handle being close to them. In your situation, it seems like you are torn in regards to your sexuality. Really think it over, and decide what you think is best. This is a decision only you can make :-)

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  • abhishek_t87

    Try 2 do something with a female first... Try the straight path first....

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    • ~L~

      That doesn't even make sense.

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  • mlbryan44

    Time to start sucking cock my boy!

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  • killiminati

    Umm dude why don't u try fucking a girl first fuckin get drunk and just do it then you will know if ur gay or not

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  • DivineDeception

    This seriously sounds like my best friend Billy . . . He's 27 as well, but I doubt he's homosexual. I think he is just one of the last people on the Earth with self-respect and standards. Or he wants to be a monk . . . Doubt it, ha. He does have a lot of friends that are girls. Metrosexual! Bahaha.

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  • seriously.. your heart will tell you and u will see if you try another dude. maybe yr a hermy.. or just stressed out. try it. it wont hurt

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  • VegetableLasagna

    get drunk and see what that gets ya.

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  • andrian007

    If what you say is true, then perhaps this uncertainty regarding your sexuality may be holding things up. Go to some gay bars and decide for yourself if you feel like you're one of them. But it's normally not that hard. If you're gay, you will know it.

    Otherwise, it's very hard to say anything else. You have to find out for yourself why you're still a virgin. Every person has different circumstances.

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  • StrictSnow

    It's probably cause ur gay.

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  • Enizzle

    Hoodrats, bro. Hoodrats.

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  • RedBlueSheep

    Explore.

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  • JustDave

    Maybe you're straight, maybe you're bi, maybe you're gay. Only you can say for sure. Sex with someone you don't love can be a very lonely experience. You'll meet the "right" person for you.

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